He doesn't want me to have sex with him if I don't really want to, but he also complains if he doesn't get any at all! I can't win! What am I supposed to do?
Q. My question is whether you should have sex (in a relationship) when you don't really want to? In all my relationships, after the first few months my sex drive has gone down quite a bit (I hear this is fairly common), but my partner's hasn't. ...
A. 30 November 2008: That is exactly it, find someone with a lower sex drive. There is nothing worse than being sexually frustrated. That is what will drive men to cheat, the whole, "I can't get it from you so I will from someone else" mentality.
You are the classic ... (read in full...)
She said she wants to make out but doesn't know how to initiate it, any advice?
Q. My gf and i have been together for nearly nine months. We love eachother very much, however, because of her previous relationships (this is my first), it has taken her along time to be intimate with me, and she knows this. I've respected her wishes ...
A. 29 November 2008: When you're alone with her and it starts to feel really awkward between the two of you, that's when it's the right time. lol. But in all seriousness there are subliminal ways to know the time is right without outright asking. During that awkw... (read in full...)
I think it's funny now... is it normal for me to think of it this way?
Q. About 9 months ago me and my boyfriend had a major fight as he lied about where he was one night, following it we both went on a night out with friends but seperately, and met up later, when we met up I caught him on the phone planning to meet up ...
A. 29 November 2008: Yes, this is normal. It is human nature to be concerned and protective. It's not that you don't trust him... it's that you don't trust other girls. The fact is he is putting himself at risk of cheating every time he goes out, so of course you will ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my wild boyfriend who loves me or go back to my ex who says he loves me?
Q. I have found this site really useful and have read it recently to help with my situation, however, I have joined today to be able to get some real advice for my exact situation. I cant talk to my family as they just change the subject (although we ...
A. 29 November 2008: Oh this is messy, I was in a similar situation. I feel I have some useful advice so I am going to put some of my time into this while I eat breakfast :). You are at a crossroads and you don't know which way to go. Well, let's have a thought experi... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to let my parents know that I have a boyfriend as they think I'm too young.
Q. I have a boyfriend and we have been talking for a while now and I'm afraid to let my parents know because I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18 but I'm afraid that if I make him wait I will lose him. I really love him and want to keep seeing him he ...
A. 29 November 2008: Always deny everything. Maybe you're parents aren't as liberal as most contemporary families in north america, but that doesn't mean you can't go about doing what you want. You just have to keep it hidden and keep yourself under control. But then ... (read in full...)
Do think this breaks all friendship rules - because my friend slept with him?
Q. About 7 months ago one of my good girl friends finished with a guy she’d been seeing, it was all very emotional and she was upset. That night we went to a friend’s party where after getting very drunk she found a rebound- good looking, one of the ...
A. 29 November 2008: Of course you should ask her haha. If you can't talk about that with your friend then you aren't really good friends to begin with, sorry to say. Cheers, Ron Mexico :)... (read in full...)
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