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Low sex drive. Is it normal for a 40 year old man to only want sex once every 2 weeks?

Q.   Hi there. My boyfriend has low sex drive due to a hard job, hours playing computer games and being tired. And he puts off having sex because he says he is worried about his performance and letting me down. He is 40 years old and says his sex driv...

A.   7 February 2010: That's frustrating. Especially since you've talked and he's refused. Slip him some aphrodisiacs? Oysters?... (read in full...)

I have more than a crush on a boy older than me

Q.   I've known this guy all of my life, he's a friend of the family. Three years ago I realised I had a crush on him and I've been in love with him ever since. We're kind of friends and he's always nice to me, but the thing is he's four years older than ...

A.   7 February 2010: Unfortunately, the two of you acting on your feelings could lead to really disastrous consequences for your boy. Statutory rape is a serious crime. I think it would be selfish of you to pursue this relationship, and dangerous for him. If you love... (read in full...)

Selfish lover...

Q.   What do I do? I love my boyfriend - he's perfect for me and I can't imagine being apart. We started dating this past summer before I went to a college 12 hours away, and our sex life was really fun and enjoyable. I have a muscle weakness that ...

A.   7 February 2010: I didn't say he'd rather masturbate. I used the lotion on him. I don't know what to say. I am sure he loves me. We've been talking about moving west next year, we talk on the phone for hours every night, and our relationship is fairly stable. ... (read in full...)

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