A gentle way to break up from my GF who has self-harm tendencies?
Q. I've grown apart from my girlfriend of 15 months and need a very gentle way to break up with her over a period of time. I don't want her to get really upset as she used to self-harm...
A. 24 March 2008: There IS no gentle way to break the news of a break-up. I wouldn't say the let's be/remain friends unless you really mean it. Be considerate. Let her say what she feels she needs to say. Telling her she doesn't need to hurt herself will probably ... (read in full...)
I need closure, how long should I wait before calling him again?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years ago broke up with me about 2 weeks ago, because he said that i did not support him. he refuses to give me some sort of closure, and i have tried everything: i wrote him a letter, i have tried to call him and i have ...
A. 24 March 2008: No matter how much you just say you don't want to talk to him, you will end up doing it until you feel you're done. It doesn't matter a whole lot that people advise you against doing so.
Keep in mind though. What kind of closure are you seeking?... (read in full...)
He says he needs time to think if we are compatible, how much time am I to wait?
Q. My boyfriend (of a little more than a year) and I recently had a small spat, but it seems to be a culmination of little unhappinesses lately. He says he needs time to think about whether we are compatible. I'm giving him that time, but at the same ...
A. 14 March 2008: It's not so much the feelings between us which he feels are incompatible. It tends to be a lot more on socioeconomic things and the fact that we like to do different things about half the time.... (read in full...)
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