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Hi there, I am 33, live in Essex, with my partner, and my teenage son. I have previously found myself in bad relationships, and have learnt alot from them. I have also studied psychology, and find this very useful when imparting advice to other people.

I will tell it as I see it, and while I appreciate that the truth is not what we always want to hear, I am a great believer in people being honest with one another.

So if you want the truth, feel free to ask me. I am not a man-hater, I really like men, as much as I like women, and I don't TELL people what to do, I merely offer my advice.

We broke up, and he refuses to take me back, did i scare him off?

Q.   If you love, deeply care for and are physically attracted to someone still shouldn't you be together? My live in boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 months ago and now when we communicate he refuses to talk about it all anymore or even entertain ...

A.   17 May 2006: Hi. I really do believe that your ex boyfriend still loves and wants to be with you. Right now, he needs space. This is why he will not discuss it. He wants to be left alone, while he sorts his thoughts and feelings out. Personally, if I really w... (read in full...)

Can My Lovers Wife Trace Me From A Text??

Q.   After my lover led me on for several years. I finally snapped and had a moment of madness. I sent a text message to his wife hinting at his infidelity and it turns out he has had many other flings. I then later received angry calls from him, several ...

A.   16 May 2006: Hi hunni. I am not going to lecture you, since I have been in the same situation myself, many moons ago, and I also had grief from the wife, when she discovered, through me, that her hubby was cheating. My lover and his wife made numerous threats, ... (read in full...)

Talking dirty, tell me how!! I go shy round my fella!

Q.   when me(18) any my boyfriend(19) are making out, usually in a car or something he often asks me to tell him what i would like to do to him - in other words talk dirty. we havnt slept together yet and so usually when we are 2gether either one of us ...

A.   16 May 2006: I'm not sure if I can be specific on here, but basically, just tell him in as much detail as you can, what you would like him to do to you, and how much you would like it. I was quite nervous of talking 'dirty' to my b/f's when I was younger, (I'm ... (read in full...)

Talking dirty, tell me how!! I go shy round my fella!

Q.   when me(18) any my boyfriend(19) are making out, usually in a car or something he often asks me to tell him what i would like to do to him - in other words talk dirty. we havnt slept together yet and so usually when we are 2gether either one of us ...

A.   16 May 2006: I'm not sure if I can be specific on here, but basically, just tell him in as much detail as you can, what you would like him to do to you, and how much you would like it. I was quite nervous of talking 'dirty' to my b/f's when I was younger, (I'm ... (read in full...)

He wont call me during the day and its making me mad!

Q.   I have a question.... I have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. We were living together and I just recently moved back home because it was to expensive and i lost my job. I have a big problem with him and that problem is that he doesn...

A.   15 May 2006: Hi. I have heard this problem so many times hunni. The more you try to make him realise this is a problem, the further he will drift from you. What I would say, is put your words into actions. This wont be easy for you, but it will reap the des... (read in full...)

How can I solve this holding-hands-problem?

Q.   Im 13, I have my first real boyfreind now, I wanna be normal, and give him hugs and hold his hand. I dont know how I should though, I was waiting for him to. Hes said little things over the phone about how his freinds say we dont act like a couple ...

A.   15 May 2006: First things first, it would be helpful to know how old your b/f is? If he is around the same age as you, it is perfectly normal for him to behave this way. This doesn't make it right, but understandable. He is probably shy about showing his ... (read in full...)

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