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I feel my BF should be with a "normal" girl...

Q.   hi, i feel really abnormal i have really small boobs and I'm 16 my boyfriend says he likes them but when i see other girls on tv and things i always feel like he should be with a normal girl, am i abnormal help me i hate looking at myself i have ...

A.   2 April 2008: If your boyfriend says he likes them, believe him. Men are astoundingly uncritical of women's bodies. Maybe because the "little head" they use for thinking about such things is just too small to hold more than one thought at a time...or too ... (read in full...)

Why can I not stay hard when I have sex?

Q.   ok I need help, I've tried having sex with my ex for like 3 times but my penis just won't stay hard. We've done oral sex before we actually tried having sex and yes I'm a virgin. I thought it was her that I wasn't sexually attracted to her but ...

A.   2 April 2008: Hmmm...well, the simple thing would be to suggest that it's performance anxiety - but it doesn't really sound like that. It seems as though you'd be able to maintain an erection during oral sex if that were the cause. To me, it sounds as though... (read in full...)

He made me "do it" and I wasn't ready...

Q.   dear cupids. I've got a real problem! I'm in a bad situation but I feel like I've caused it myself :S I have been *seeing* this guy, (a friend of my brother) who is aged 18, for 9 months, I am 15, 16 in May, and he is my *first love*, he's ...

A.   2 April 2008: I think he did force you into it - he just used emotional force instead of physical force. That is called coercion. In the United States, it is illegal for someone your age to go out with someone his age, because the fact that he is so much older ... (read in full...)

Am I being used to feed his habit?

Q.   I have starting seeing a man who i have become very fond of, From the beginning he himself, and his sister-in-law have said be careful, i was gonna get hurt, however it seems, or i thought - they were wrong, he speaks on msn to me every day or texts ...

A.   2 April 2008: Iyanla Vanzant, the author, had two excellent pieces of relationship advice to give. First, she said that, "When you see crazy coming, cross the street" which means that as soon as you can see a relationship or situation you are approaching ... (read in full...)

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