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Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?

Q.   Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and ...

A.   13 June 2007: If the guy can casual lie or is somehow building an entire lie universe where he isn't out or doesn't want you to meet his friends, that is never a good sign. There are layers to not out men that I could really touch on but if he is older than 21 ... (read in full...)

Do you think I have an anal fissure or could it be something more serious?

Q.   I have a bit of a problem and wondering if anyone can help. Im a 20 year old male in a gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months. Two months into the relationship I noticed during sex that my anus hurt. Ever since then ...

A.   13 June 2007: I had this problem when I was younger, though I didn't have surgery but was damn near surgery (or so said the emergency room doctor). It was really really rough time and I don't know how I would ever lived through the pain. So you have my empathy. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to be more interested in his computer game (world of warcraft) than in me.

Q.   I am a 39 yr old gay man and have been in a relationship with my partner for 16 years. We have always had a good sex life and I have been happy until recently. My boyfriend seems to be more interested in his computer game (world of warcraft) than in ...

A.   13 June 2007: It's not called world of crack for nothing, so at least take that into consideration. A lot of time people get 'relationship lazy' when they feel that everything is secure (from his/her perspective), so they let things go to the wayside, like ... (read in full...)

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