Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 24 March 2008: wow! that sounds REALLY good!! good for you!! I think that sounds very healthy, and is all about you taking care of you.
happy easter!
you notice how when you're happy, and at peace, the posts are really short? it's the turmoil that cau... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 20 March 2008: I find it interesting that he always seems to call when you're trying to sleep. This is a passive-aggressive way of getting attention, because someone who isn't playing games knows to call during times you're likely to be awake. It's almost as if ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 14 March 2008: From: Women Who Love Too Much, Robin Norwood, 1985.
The Road to Recovery (steps to take)
1) Go for help
2) Make your own recovery the first priority in your life
3) Find a support group of peers who understand
4) Develop your spiritual side ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 14 March 2008: When I get time I'm going to post the list of things you have to do to take charge of your life, according to this book (Women who love too much). They are simple steps, but the author, a therapist, contends that every woman she's ever worked with ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 March 2008: Another book I would strongly recommend, that I am reading right now, and has been around since 1985, is Women Who Love Too Much. This one is opening my eyes to childhood patterns of behavior that set you up for abusive relationships with addicts of ... (read in full...)
Why did he email and call me after our date and then ignored me?
Q. I met J through a centralized network of online communities. Last Sunday, we had a great date, three hours long talking over drinks. I emailed the next day to say thank you for drinks and that I had a very nice time. He replied that evening tha...
A. 9 March 2008: I also thought I'd like to say that paladin has a good point, and/but women don't always feel a strong connection to a guy, either. What they see is potential for a relationship, so that when a guy doesn't respond, it's not that our feelings get ... (read in full...)
Why did he email and call me after our date and then ignored me?
Q. I met J through a centralized network of online communities. Last Sunday, we had a great date, three hours long talking over drinks. I emailed the next day to say thank you for drinks and that I had a very nice time. He replied that evening tha...
A. 9 March 2008: Did you actually make a date to meet for drinks for the weekend, or was this not understood by both of you? If you made an actual date and he didn't show up with no explanation, then forget it; unless he's in the hospital or his mother is, he's not ... (read in full...)
Why did he email and call me after our date and then ignored me?
Q. I met J through a centralized network of online communities. Last Sunday, we had a great date, three hours long talking over drinks. I emailed the next day to say thank you for drinks and that I had a very nice time. He replied that evening tha...
A. 8 March 2008: this all happened in under a week or two? don't rush it. give the guy some time to back away. women frequently interpret the guy's early absence as signs he's not interested. this isn't always true. they work on a different timetable than women do; ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 March 2008: Hi there!
No, I think there's been a bit of a misunderstanding; I am NOT advocating that this woman try to help anyone right now. If that's how what i said sounded, I have to apologise, since that's not what I meant, most certainly. I said I d... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 March 2008: Hi there!
No, I think there's been a bit of a misunderstanding; I am NOT advocating that this woman try to help anyone right now. If that's how what i said sounded, I have to apologise, since that's not what I meant, most certainly. I said I d... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 March 2008: I think, to provide some balance, that it needs to be said that the original poster is right about one thing in particular: abusive relationships do lower your self-esteem gradually over time, to the point where when you are finally immersed in ... (read in full...)
How can I break up with her knowing she would be devastated?
Q. I told my girlfriend that we needed a "break" for now, and only for a week and she cryed alot. How will i be able to tell her that i want to break up with her if my feelings dont change during that time? She will be 100 times more upset than ...
A. 3 March 2008: I'm glad you had the guts to ask the question! shows you've got good intentions! PLEASE don't do what was done to me just recently and to other women on this forum--the guy who just evaporates. For god's sake, behave like a man, and say goodbye ... (read in full...)
How do I get closure from a relationship if the person has disappeared?
Q. How do I get closure from a relationship if the person has just disappeared? I don't really want to call him, text him, or email him ... I just want answers but don't know how to get them. I know I will never get the answers I want to hear. I ...
A. 3 March 2008: oh boy, do I understand what you're dealing with. I want closure from a guy who just vanished too--a long distance relationship that went sour very quickly after he returned home from visiting the US last summer. I just got finished posting a ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 2 March 2008: replace the thoughts about him with thoughts about YOU. What do you want from life? What do you want to do with your life? Is there anything you like to do? Think about something, anything, that isn't him. He's not worth your mental energy. ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi there--I'm new to this forum and this discussion. I had to say, after having read all the posts, that you've come a long way in a short period of time. I too, not all that recently (it's been 5 months) was left by someone I could not trust. It ... (read in full...)
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