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He wants me to stop taking birth control and see what happens!

Q.   I am 27 and am in a new relationship of 3 months with my boyfriend who is 26. We have known each other for years, hanging out with mutual friends every now and again through that time. I have always had something for him this whole time but whenever ...

A.   30 December 2010: Congratulations on finding a man you connect with and better yet, one your daughter likes! Its often said that during the first 6 months of a relationship that most couples are in the "blindly in love stage". Basically, what this means is most ... (read in full...)

As the girlfriend, how would you feel in this situation?

Q.   I simply want your opinion on the following scenario. Your bf [who has in the past broken your trust issues and met up with an ex behind your back]allows a different ex gf to come to his state, stay over night and generally hang out because she's ...

A.   13 December 2010: I would be very concerned and downright angry. It could be understandable if he had been friends with this girl and spoke to her often. Its the fact that they haven't spoken and now he's being her shoulder to cry on? If I was you, I would put my ... (read in full...)

Is it ok for a girl to just want no strings sex?

Q.   is it ok for a girl to just want no strings sex?? i'm 23 and to be honest ive had enough of relationships, i get bored after a while and find myself doing anything to get out of it, as they don't make me happy. I've toyed with the idea of having a ...

A.   13 December 2010: You're still young so you have plenty of time to settle down. If you're not wanting/ready for a relationship There's nothing wrong with that. Just remember that sometimes you can go into something without strings attached and one of you develops ... (read in full...)

Partner not treating me right while I am pregnant

Q.   I am so confused my partner just goes out and say's he is going to do something that really should take a fraction of the time it takes him. I am 6 months pregnant we haven't made love in an age he make no attempt to do so. I have asked to stop ...

A.   13 December 2010: Pregnancy is a time in your life that needs to be enjoyed. Its a time when you're most venerable and need a stable loving partner to be there along your side. Unfortunately, life is not a fairy tale and finding a prince can be tough. You're not the ... (read in full...)

I don't love him and I don't know how to tell him!

Q.   hey, im 13, i woke up this morning and discorved that i had a text from my best friend, who i havent talked to in a month, because i thought i made him mad when he said i love you and i said love is just an illison, so i awake this morning to a love ...

A.   13 December 2010: Just be honest with him. Get straight to the point. Don't sugarcoat things because it could mislead him and you'll be in the exact same predicament as you're in now. Love yourself and be happy. You're young and have a full life ahead of you. Enjoy ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man, to get even for my cheating!

Q.   Okay this is long and....little embarrassed about this but here goes. 3 Years ago I had an affair with another women she was a close friend to me and my girlfriend. For an entire year I was seeing her off an on cause me and my girlfriend would ...

A.   13 December 2010: Okay so let me say the harsh reality here. I'm sorry to say but she is definitely in the wrong here. Cheating is bad regardless of the situation. You were mature enough to realize this and try to make things right. My advice to you would be to end ... (read in full...)

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