How to repair a fractured friendship?
Q. Recently, I got into a big fight with one of my close friends. Needless to say, shamefully, I was the one at fault and became very over-emotional and angry with them at the time for reasons I could not comprehend while I was in an emotional state. ...
A. 22 February 2023: Thank you for all your constructive criticism! I have had this issue with anger outbursts and over-emotional behaviour for a very long time. I did previously seek therapy for 4 years to assist with a lot of underlying issues I had in the past. I let ... (read in full...)
How do I manage this co-worker?
Q. I started this new job as an Activities Instructor in the disability sector a month and a half ago and I really love it! Recently, I went on an overnight trip with some clients and another activities instructor that I have been having some trouble ...
A. 8 July 2022: Thanks for your input and I really appreciate it! I'm not use to taking the lead in many things and find it uncomfortable. I was given this role by my company to improve on that and have it as a stepping stone for another job within the company that ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Should I let him go? 2
Q. I have been talking to this guy for over a month now and now has been going downhill from there. There will be days where he treats me like his girlfriend and call me "his beautiful" and tells me to stop worrying about him, then there are other da...
A. 3 April 2017: Thank you so much for the wonderful responses! Your right, his definitely not "mine" nor I'm "his", we really don't share a lot in common, nor he could give a rats ass to show interest in what I love and of course his playing mind games!
It hi... (read in full...)
Why is he so hard to talk to?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...
A. 23 March 2017: Thank you so much for the wonderful responses! I have finally sat him down, as he knew that there was something wrong with me. So I spoke to him about our situation. I asked for some space from him before but he didnt get the message. However this ... (read in full...)
Why is he so hard to talk to?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...
A. 20 March 2017: Thanks for your response! It was quite helpful! You are right, with his friends; he is always the "clown", gets the attention with his friends and he might see himself as entertaining and doesn't like the silence. Today, recently was talking to ... (read in full...)
He was so attentive and now not so much. How do I get him back?
Q. I have been talking to this guy from another state and he told me I was gorgegus, from there we have been messaging each other everyday. However in the beginning he moved alittle too fast for me, he was calling me beautiful and added "xx" at the end ...
A. 7 March 2017: Thank you! I so needed to hear this and you are right; he might only be using me for an ego booster. Which is what I had initially assumed in the first place however he kept telling me he wasnt trying to push me away and he wanted me to text him as ... (read in full...)
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