Now that Miss X wants me back, I'm engaged to Miss Y. What do I do?
Q. It's a mad situation... I was with a fantastic young lady called Miss X (now 35) for three years, we got on brilliantly, I (now aged 43) bought a house so we could be together, it was just great. There was a problem though, I didn't get on with her...
A. 12 July 2005: I think the important question you want to ask yourself is: who do you love? You can love both, but who do you truley and deeply love? Who do you imagine yourself growing old with? I think that if you truley loved Miss Y, then you wouldn't be ... (read in full...)
I detect a spark with a co-worker, but I'm about to change workplaces!
Q. Hi, I'm 23yr old woman who is very intelligent and good looking, and believe me I appreciate these gifts. The problem is social, most people are scared of me! Men assume I must be going out with someone. Because I'm seen as a genius most peop...
A. 12 July 2005: This sounds like a wonderful potential. I would definitely pursue it. Try and take the next opportunity to start a conversation with him- he may like you but be too intimidated or shy to talk to you. The conversation doesn't have to be long, but ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 14. He says he loves me, but why won't he have a relationship with me?
Q. I'm 14 years old, my friend is 19. We do everything together. We have even had sex. I'm the only pperson he has ever said "I love you" to, but he will not be in a real relationship with me. I know it's illegal, but age doesnt matter to him. Why ...
A. 12 July 2005: I'm sorry to say, but based on experience, this guy is just using you! Date guys your own age- not only is it illegal & socially unacceptable, but you would fare better with someone of a smililar age. Also, if you get into a relationship with ... (read in full...)
My husband would rather use porn to satisfy himself than be with me...
Q. I have been married for eight years.Mmy husband and i haven't had sex in two and a half years. He is addicted to porn, and would rather satisfy himself then be with me. I feel like I am dead inside. I have gained thirty pounds and just don't care ...
A. 12 July 2005: Men and women are different. Women show affection through emotional love, men do so with physical love. Point blank- men need sex, they need it often, and it needs to be spiced up every so once in awhile. This is the responsibility of both parties. ... (read in full...)
Finally told him that I was interested in him, and the feeling doesn't seem to be mutual... What now?
Q. About 7 years ago as a college freshman, I had a crush on this football player. I managed to inform him of this when I was drunk one night. And coincidentally, we share the same birthday. So along with a few other players whose birthdays fell along ...
A. 12 July 2005: Ok first of all, remember that this guy isn't the only fish in the sea. If he digs you, great, if he doesn't, move on. You've already let him know (on more than one ocassion) that you like him. He is aware of this. Now the ball should be in his... (read in full...)
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