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writes: I'm 14 years old, my friend is 19. We do everything together. We have even had sex. I'm the only pperson he has ever said "I love you" to, but he will not be in a real relationship with me. I know it's illegal, but age doesnt matter to him. Why won't he be with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2005): Your too young to be worried about guys and sex you are only young once so enjoy it. Why do you want to grow up so fast?
This guy sounds like a right one!
He's using you sweetie if you like it or not. He won't get into a relationship with you because he knows that people will talk about him and he can get done by the law. In the eyes of the law he would be branded as a pedo. He would be hung out dried and quartered. Him being 19 he should know better then to pray on young girls such as yourself. If the Law knew he would be put on a Childs Sex offenders register.
When he tells you that he loves you, it's just a way of getting you to have sex with him. He's just a user. Shame on him. Maybe it's a power thing him being an adult and YOU BEING A CHILD ask yourself one question has he EVER asked you to keep quiet about the sexual relationship? if he has it says it all
If he really loved you he would tell everyone about you, but he hasn't. Wake up sweetie and smell the roses!
Take Care
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reader, becky05 +, writes (12 July 2005):
Because hes just using you for sex. sorry to be so blunt but this is how it sounds to me.
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reader, orchidblossom +, writes (12 July 2005):
I'm sorry to say, but based on experience, this guy is just using you! Date guys your own age- not only is it illegal & socially unacceptable, but you would fare better with someone of a smililar age. Also, if you get into a relationship with someone, wait awhile before having sex. If a guy really cares about you he will wait. If he keeps trying to get down your pants after you said no, then he does not care about you and is just using you. I have a younger sister who is your age, and it pains me to see how old she is trying to be. Please remember that you are still a kid- enjoy it! Don't try and grow up too fast!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2005): He could be scared of what happened people knew you are having sex. Or maybe he is using you because being 14 you could be an easy target for someone to have sex with. Men are like that especially at that age they want sex with anything that moves!!! Its unfair to say that he is doing this because it could not be that totally. Maybe he is just worried or affraid of something. Either way whatever it is i think you need to sit down and have a talk about it. When he nexts tells you he loves you, maybe bring up the conversation by sayin "If you love me then why don't we start a proper relationship?" You need to talk to him you owe this to yourself its not fair to do this to yourslef you will only regret it later on.
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