Having an open relationship while being in love?
Q. Hello, I am 20 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been recently engaged and I couldn't be more happier. But, the question arose of him wanting an open relationship. At first, I was hurt by him even telling ...
A. 16 March 2011: Those who say "if you love someone, you want them and only them" are wrong to a degree. For some, it's ok, for others it's not. What is important is how YOU feel about it! It does take two to agree on something so important to a relationship. And, ... (read in full...)
What I don't understand is why would she have sabotaged this relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up last week. We had been dating for a year. The first 6 months were great and we never fought. The last 6 months have been turbulent with episodes of fights and making up almost on a monthly basis. The periods between ...
A. 2 February 2011: Hope I can speak freely. In my opinion...RUN! This woman is not your soulmate. Take a little time to center yourself and put all thoughts of trying to reconcile with her out of your mind. Focus on you and curb any thoughts that do not serve you ... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 2 February 2011: eyeswideopen, Now you feel the need to cast doubt on my post's validity? And you're happy about it too. Geez, you hurt my feelings. I just live for your approval and can't get it. sigh... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 2 February 2011: captain, thanks for writing. Sorry things didn't work out for you and you ended up having your feelings hurt and feel cheated. I guess you should, you were cheated on and lied to, after all. That's why my girl and I agreed to not see other people... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 2 February 2011: Well, Gamine and Miamine, you could not be further off target, but thanks for your few kind words. Apparently, you don't believe what I've written about this girl (woman of 50 yrs young) or you just want to bash what you don't believe in.
That'... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 2 February 2011: Hey, thank you very much angelDlite! What a nice reply. Yes, it's kind of like giving her a sex toy that's bigger than me (not by much and I think only a little thicker, which she enjoys!), but it's a live sex toy that is also a good friend of hers ... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: Thanks jmtmj! Funny, sad, informative and personal. Thanks for sharing. To be honest, I also had my one previous threesome attempt go bad. I mentioned it briefly in my original post. Looking back I can see that it was doomed to be horrible. She... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: Eyeswideopen, you comment with such distain for what we're doing, then ask me to do something for you. Can't you find a way to be happy for those you disagree with? Don't you see the value in that? Give what you want to get. Surely you want ... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: Thank you kirra07! Great advice. We have already talked about there not being any "restriction". She can do whatever feels natural and happens naturally. In fact, I want her to kiss him passionately the same way they kissed when they were seeing ... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: No, this is not planned to be a one time deal. She and I discussed at length the type of relationship we wanted very soon after we met and realized we were soulmates and falling in love. We agreed to take it one day at a time, one fantasy at a time ... (read in full...)
How do I ensure that I get an orgasm?
Q. i have had sex only with my boyfriend so all my sexual experiences have been with him. most of the times i don't have an orgasm, because he comes sooner than me or i get turned off in the middle and therefore become less stimulated. i love foreplay ...
A. 1 February 2011: You hate oral sex? You have pretty much ensured that you will never get what you want or have the orgasms that blow your socks off by ruling out oral sex. Sure, there are other ways to get off, but giving and receiving oral sex is absolutely one of, ... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 1 February 2011: As I said, I have accepted that he might be better at screwing than me. There are many that are better than me and many that are worse. She's told me many times that I make her feel in ways she's never experienced too. I am an excellent lover and ... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 1 February 2011: As I said, I have accepted that he might be better at screwing than me. There are many that are better than me and many that are worse. She's told me many times that I make her feel in ways she's never experienced too. I am an excellent lover and ... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 31 January 2011: I just want to add a little more to what I should have included in my original post. This is going to happen, it's already scheduled, her former lover has airfare, I've talked with him about this and she and I have decided to move forward after ... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 31 January 2011: She and I talked about this at length. I plan to participate and told her my concerns of feeling left out. She said she wants it because there will be two of us, not just one, and I believe her. She also told me just today that if I wanted to change ... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 31 January 2011: Well, what good could come from it is she gets her long-time wish fulfilled, there are no petty, jealous emotions on my part, we share something very intimate and giving and we have an even stronger bond and prove that there are no jealousies ... (read in full...)
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