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Will this breakup mend?

Q.   I've just split with my ex a week ago over argument. I have an 11-month-old baby. When I asked if any chance getting back together he says don't know. Then when I ask well would u like to he says I ain't saying no. Maybe down the line. I'm so con...

A.   14 September 2017: To answer honestly more information about the breakup would have to be provided. For example who initiated the split? It sounds like you want to maintain the relationship, especially considering that you have a child (I assume it's with him?). ... (read in full...)

How do I find some interesting dates?

Q.   I went on a date recently. I had loads of interests in common, he was attractive and he has a stable job. We have a second date. There is only one problem I found him a little boring but I find this is my fault as I normally find people boring ...

A.   14 September 2017: Do you want your lover to entertain you? What are you really looking for? I had always thought that people who get easily bored either lack imagination or have few outside interests, but I could be wrong. I share your view about small talk, bu... (read in full...)

I 'almost' had a relationship, what's going on, s he being cautious?

Q.   I am very confused. An "almost relationship" probably best describes what we were. We were close friends prior to any feelings developing. We were not physically intimate, there was a lot of cuddling and closeness when he invited me over. But he ...

A.   14 September 2017: I am going to take up a somewhat contrary point of view that you should consider. Though I agree with one major point of the other advisers, namely losing a friend over a simple rejection was a mistake. It turns out that romantic feelings... (read in full...)

My married male co-worker alternates between friendly and cold

Q.   I want to ask for help and I hope I can write this to get advice and not judgement as in my heart I don't plan to sin. I work as a nurse and I just started at a new hospital. On my team is another male nurse that work with that is married. Since I ...

A.   13 September 2017: I base my answer on what I would do if I were in his shoes. First he's probably really enjoying the female attention he's getting from you, probably for ego reasons. Since he hasn't shut you down he probably feels a genuine attraction. Howev... (read in full...)

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