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At 26 years of age, why am I now having strong gay thoughts now, when I don't think I'm gay nor bi-sexual?

Q.   Hi, I am a little confused about myself sexually. Normally I like women, I find them very pretty and attractive, face, hair and body shape etc the usually heterosexual stuff. I am even shy around women but I find whenever I am aroused, I always end ...

A.   22 October 2015: The original questioner here,and to reply to the answers: @Collegeguy. Its not so much that I regret the feelings after orgasm because before I do hit it, I definitely enjoy the fantasies and look forward to them again, but its like the sexual ... (read in full...)

Have I let myself down, or do others expect too much of me?

Q.   Hello, I've been having a lot of trouble lately and I keep making things worse for myself. I'm 15 years old and I've been predicted very high target grades and gcses, and people expect me to use my intelligence to the maximum, but lately I feel as ...

A.   5 December 2012: Aunt Honesty is right, you should never try to live up to other's expectations except your own. Some people and parents always seem to try and lay down an already written path for you and expect you to follow it. The only person you should try to ... (read in full...)

Are the disabled unlovable?

Q.   How does anyone get a girlfriend? I'm 24, almost 25, and every woman I ask out rejects me. I've tried over and over again. I use a wheelchair, but I'm finishing a degree in Web design/development to start a career in Web design and my specific ...

A.   5 December 2012: No, disabled people are not unlovable but there are a lot of shallow, insensitive people out there. Its best to meet someone who is kind-hearted and has a great personality. ... (read in full...)

How to get many answers to your question.

Q.   So many times folks submit good questions but, get few answers. It's very frustrating to have an important topic you need advice on and not be able to get it. While talking with friends is easy to get to what you need, asking in written form can...

A.   5 December 2012: I know what you mean, I asked a question recently about a problem that has been bothering me for three years and so far it has only two answers, one of them is from me. It does not help to have a whole block of text but some questions that do have... (read in full...)

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