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I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

Q.   I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

A.   22 October 2012: Hi. Try to ride the wave of pain,as it will pass with time. He may just contact you out of the blue,but by then, hopefully,you will be strong enough to deal with it. Don.t push him for answers. You.re silence speaks volumes. See your freinds,and ... (read in full...)

Lack of support and TLC - What the kind of behavior is this?

Q.   Hey everyone. I apologize for the lengthy post. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Relationship is up and down, he does really stupid and hurtful things sometimes, and all the time I just give him chance, after chance, after ...

A.   6 October 2012: I have just got out of a relationship with a guy like yours,thank god. If I was you, I would finish this relationship. He's selfish,and will always treat you like this,and your emotions will be up and down. He can never make you happy. You dese... (read in full...)

The wedding is planned, I have even ordered my dress but I'm becoming more and more insecure in my relationship because of my boyfriend's actions

Q.   Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I am 30 and engaged. We are supposed to be getting married mid next year. My fiancée and I have been together for nine years. However for the past year I have been feeling less and less secure in the relation...

A.   27 September 2012: Postpone it immediately. Wedding dress or not. I really think you need to sit down and have it out with this guy with about all the things you mentioned. You cannot and must not allow yourself to marry this guy .. imagine - you could have the next ... (read in full...)

He is a complete jerk! Isn't he?

Q.   I met this guy at a club. He had dinner and we went his place but I refused to have sex. Two days later he invited me to come to his bro'bday party. I went there but we didn't had sex. then he invited me to come over his place to watch mov...

A.   12 September 2012: He's an as****hole!! you are too good for him. Drop him!!... (read in full...)

Guy at a bar leant in for a kiss and got my lips before I could turn away, do I tell my boyfriend about this?

Q.   Hi everybody, just a quick question! I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love him so much, I went away for a night out with my girls Saturday night and a few men were chatting me up I think I must of said "sorry, I've got a bo...

A.   4 September 2012: It' IS sexual assualt. this happend to me once. I never forgot it. It;s really bad. polease do not balme yourslef. You have doen nothing wrong. The man hat did that is SICK, Dangerous and Nasty.If you feel bad telling your BF don;t tell him. Share ... (read in full...)

He has depression but is that any way to treat me? He's horrible and calls me nasty names.

Q.   My partner is and has suffered from depression for years (way before i met him but i didnt know about it for a while after we met.) his temper lately has been awful and he swears at me and calls me horrible names. he has even told me he doesnt want ...

A.   13 August 2012: You are doing well to have put up with this for so long. i really feel for you- I alos feel, depressed or not, he has no right what so ever to call you names and be abusive. he needs to go and get treatment - have you suggested that to him? Also, ... (read in full...)

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