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What can I do to relax and cope and overcome my fear of sex with my husband? We love each other and he is a good husband.

Q.   hi, i am a married girl. My husband loves and cares for me. he is a very good husband and i too love him a lot. but the problem is i am scared of sex. i will get scared of pain. whenever we want to have sex, i will become scared and then we cant...

A.   4 January 2013: Sometimes adults tend to tell children things that scar them for life without even thinking of the effects it would have later on, not saying that is the case here but perhaps you wre told that sex is very painful amoung other things that may make ... (read in full...)

I want to know who my boyfriend's ex FWB is, and he wont tell me.

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years came out and told me recently he had a few things he needed to tell me one of them which was he went on two separate occasions with a woman he basically had as a "sex buddy" prior to our relationship. He says they ...

A.   8 December 2012: Well thanks everyone, sorry it took a few days but i had a long chat with him, i chose a time when he just got off work, alot on his mind tired and whatever else, i asked so are you ready to give the answers to my questions i previously asked, he ... (read in full...)

I want to know who my boyfriend's ex FWB is, and he wont tell me.

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years came out and told me recently he had a few things he needed to tell me one of them which was he went on two separate occasions with a woman he basically had as a "sex buddy" prior to our relationship. He says they ...

A.   5 December 2012: And to the anonymous reader, no confusion at all. I get your point though, but just to clarify what i said in my question was that he confessed that he met with her recently basically for the reason they would have normally met in the past, but ... (read in full...)

I want to know who my boyfriend's ex FWB is, and he wont tell me.

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years came out and told me recently he had a few things he needed to tell me one of them which was he went on two separate occasions with a woman he basically had as a "sex buddy" prior to our relationship. He says they ...

A.   5 December 2012: it is difficult to state the exact conversation we had, those are my words not his, when he was speaking about it, he was basically telling me how it went, *not exact words* she said somewhere in their conversation that she knows he has someone but ... (read in full...)

I want to know who my boyfriend's ex FWB is, and he wont tell me.

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years came out and told me recently he had a few things he needed to tell me one of them which was he went on two separate occasions with a woman he basically had as a "sex buddy" prior to our relationship. He says they ...

A.   5 December 2012: To the female anonymous reader he didnt just decide to confess about what happen after two years, we have been together for two years what he confessed about were things that happen in recent months, with reference to this FWB. to xearo thanks for ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend got drunk and ended up falling asleep on the couch of a male friend. She says nothing happened. I don't know what to do.

Q.   My girlfriend of 6 months went to some bars last night with her best friend and some other friends and I didn't go as I had a law exam today. She messaged me at about 10pm and said she was ok and told her I was going to bed. I woke up and shed...

A.   5 December 2012: the anonymous male reader has an interesting point but at the end of the day, we cant know for sure what really happened so i still insist to talk to her about it and if you do decide to continue this relationship or even pursue another in future, ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend got drunk and ended up falling asleep on the couch of a male friend. She says nothing happened. I don't know what to do.

Q.   My girlfriend of 6 months went to some bars last night with her best friend and some other friends and I didn't go as I had a law exam today. She messaged me at about 10pm and said she was ok and told her I was going to bed. I woke up and shed...

A.   5 December 2012: Maybe you are overreacting, she just might be telling the truth, i am no physic but she could have not mention anything to you but she did, but two major things downfalls in this relationsihp, you seriously sound like you dont trust her and you ... (read in full...)

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