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I do whatever he wants me too but it makes me feel cheap and easy

Q.   Okay so I meet this guy about 6 months back and after 3 or so weeks he got me invited to a party and we hooked up. Since then we have been seeing each other in secret 1 or 2 times a week at various places in a friends with benefits agreement, but ...

A.   2 May 2009: Hello Special, Ohh no what a situation you're in. Whilst I really sympathise with your dilemma I think you are so aware that the arrangement you have with him is not making you happy. In all honesty, not everyone is cut out for FWB set-ups.... (read in full...)

First time sex for gay and 34

Q.   Thinking about it, I guess I was waiting for the right person to do it and the right time. Being me now, at this time, I'm realizing that you just have to go for it if you find someone who wants to be with you.... A little history, I knew I was gay ...

A.   2 May 2009: Hi there, Well I think it's a lovely gift and I completely agree with Gina. Talk to him so that your first time is as relaxed and special as it can be for the both of you. All the best and good luck. MG X... (read in full...)

Why would he act so differently from real life and on msn?

Q.   I would like to ask about a guy's mind. Why would a guy behave so differently on msn from real life? For example, on msn, when you tell him that you are struggling on something or tell him you are sad..., he would somewhat comfort you. But...

A.   2 May 2009: Hello, Well, the problem is most people have persona's depending on what they want to achieve. Either he is conflicted or just plain bizarre, it's hard to know but the behaviour is strange and potentially damaging. All in all he is negative... (read in full...)

I can't live with him... but I can't live without him either.

Q.   I have been in a relationship for about six months now and at the current moment it's a constant struggle. It's long distance and i only see him at weekends yet that at the beginning was totally fine as i am at Uni during the week and he works etc ...

A.   2 May 2009: Hi Auntie Noodle, So sorry to read about your situation. It feels like the worst thing in the world to be lonely whilst in a relationship (currently going through a similar thing myself). It's very early in the relationship to be having these ... (read in full...)

Keen to hear others' experiences with the Yasmin pill...

Q.   I'm thinking of going back onto the pill, a number of my friends have been taking the Yasmin pill and they have all said that they have maintained their weight or even lost weight and their skin is a lot clearer and they have less period pains. But ...

A.   18 December 2008: Hiya, I took Yasmin a few years ago and found my skin become blotchy, I developed more facial hair/ingrowing hairs (hence the blotchy painful spots) and put on a stone very quickly. The final straw was the depression and mood swings, I became s... (read in full...)

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