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Is it really possible to remain friends with an ex? I would value our friendship but wonder if he has accepted we can't go back to being lovers.

Q.   Hi everyone - I need your help again. My partner and I split up in February this year but the same thing happened last year and we got back together in September of that year (only to split again 6 months later). We didn't live together or anyt...

A.   14 June 2008: Many thanks for your replies. I didn't give him my new number but I think he may have got it from my ex husband as he works with him! I think it's easier for me because I'm the one that has broken things off but I just can't see that from the end ... (read in full...)

My one time dream.

Q.   well honest guy in my 19 year stright up loves my women .sex is bad she hates it i love it.one time shot at younger clean lover all goes i am shy well be very hard at first may not even hav sex ..its been so long i just want to see a younger body ...

A.   10 November 2007: How the heck has this 'problem' got on this site - it doesn't even make sense!... (read in full...)

I can't understand how he can be happy in this marriage knowing well I love another man who I'm unable to have any contact with. Or should I just be content with what I have?

Q.   I'm married to a really nice man, my best friend really, since 1996. For him it's always been real love but I've foregone the passion as I never thought it was that important, but as the years went on I found it more and more difficult to meet my ...

A.   19 October 2007: I can relate to how you feel. I was with my partner for 4 years until we split up in May. Unlike you we weren't married and didn't even live together. We got back together about 8 weeks ago and even now I'm not sure the relationship is right. ... (read in full...)

I ended the relationship but it still hurts

Q.   I am needing some words of support here. I just ended a relationship and have decided that no contact is the way to go. It is early days after the break up and I am still tempted to send an email or call. I have a challenging career and good friends ...

A.   26 June 2007: I am going through exactly the same now only my ex-partner hasn't got anybody else. I have felt the same feelings that you are now and I didn't contact him but there was always that doubt as to whether I'd done the right thing but I really knew the ... (read in full...)

How do I make it clear to him that we should break up?

Q.   I've been with someone for about eight years. The last two years we've been on rough waters. We've talked to try to work things out several times, and nothing ever changes. I've decided it's time to part our separate ways, but he always wants to ...

A.   21 May 2007: I've been in exactly the same situation recently but in the end you know your own heart and mind. If it hasn't worked out by now, it probably never will. It will be hard to let go after the time you've spent together but everything happens for a ... (read in full...)

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