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She kissed another guy! How could she do that?

Q.   I have a LDR and my girlfriend that's so far away called me and told me that she had made a mistake and that she and this guy kissed.. But she promised me she is not seeing her any more. We have talked it out but... I still feel like weird... from ...

A.   1 March 2009: Long distance relationships are hard. You run the risk of cheating happening. She probably felt lonely and someone was there to fill the void. But the ball is really in your court now. You can choose to forgive her and hope that something like this ... (read in full...)

Comingout question

Q.   hello. i am a male, 18, and have recently decided that the time has come to tell my family that i am gay, but i have no idea how i should tell them and am worried that i will just run off when i am about to. also, should the truth have come out earl...

A.   1 March 2009: Coming out is a major decision. Talk to the person/parent you trust the most first. You will be surprised. Most likely they already know and they are just waiting for you to admit it. If they do run away, then you have the weight lifted off of your... (read in full...)

I am 15 and want to have a baby!

Q.   I want to keep having sex....i was 14 when i started to and now 15 and want a baby. I really want to have one but my mom don't want me to i wanna fellow my own desires...

A.   1 March 2009: I completely agree with everyone who posted. You are 15 years old. You are still a baby yourself. You don't need to have a child right now. There is so much in life that you still need to accomplish, like graduating high school and going to college. ... (read in full...)

Is it dirty to love giving my b/f a blow job?

Q.   Is it dirty to love giving me boyfriend a blow job. Sometimes i just fantasize bout turning him on and giving him one say in a dressing room when we r out shopping. I just love giving him one and how it makes him feel and me. He says i turn him on ...

A.   1 March 2009: It's only dirty if YOU feel that its dirty. It's a completely healthy sexual act. Most men would love to have you as their girlfriend. Especially if you are good at it. Just keep things clean and safe. So...Rock on and keep doing what you are ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is gay!

Q.   I just found out my boyfriend of 6 months is gay. 6 months may not seem like a long time at all, but for me it feels like my whole world….and yet it feels like it wasn’t long enough. It is all to hard to explain how I feel but I keep trying and I ...

A.   1 March 2009: I totally understand what you are going through. 6 months is a long time to be with someone. I spent a year and a half with my boyfriend. He told me over email that he was gay and that he could not do our relationship any longer. It's not goin... (read in full...)

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