Partner is MIA and has me dumbfounded, grasping at straws!
Q. I need help feeling secure, or am I fooling myself? Being unemployed had been placing a strain on my relationship of 7 months. Just before X-mas I was told by my partner that he felt that he was putting in all the effort for us and that he cou...
A. 21 January 2010: Understand that gay men, in general, are predisposed to promiscuity. It's important enough to me that he's been completely loyal up till the stressful and heartbreaking Christmas, and that he apologizes for it.
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Partner is MIA and has me dumbfounded, grasping at straws!
Q. I need help feeling secure, or am I fooling myself? Being unemployed had been placing a strain on my relationship of 7 months. Just before X-mas I was told by my partner that he felt that he was putting in all the effort for us and that he cou...
A. 21 January 2010: Aunty BimBim, yes yes and yes.
I'm horrified as well. Regardless, to me this is something to deal with and to move past in the interest of our continued partnership.
LOL it's no wonder that I couldn't perform, isn't it?... (read in full...)
Partner is MIA and has me dumbfounded, grasping at straws!
Q. I need help feeling secure, or am I fooling myself? Being unemployed had been placing a strain on my relationship of 7 months. Just before X-mas I was told by my partner that he felt that he was putting in all the effort for us and that he cou...
A. 21 January 2010: correction he's only 1-1/2 days missing, unlike him to not even call unless he's "out of town"... (read in full...)
Partner is MIA and has me dumbfounded, grasping at straws!
Q. I need help feeling secure, or am I fooling myself? Being unemployed had been placing a strain on my relationship of 7 months. Just before X-mas I was told by my partner that he felt that he was putting in all the effort for us and that he cou...
A. 21 January 2010: I was unemployed - doing temp/low-wage shift work on and off for 3 months.
I've been told by others to watch out for his ex, that he's not a good man. I'm not judging and will avoid pointing finger - just an FYI, perhaps there is meddling... (read in full...)
I've confessed to almost cheating, now we need to talk. Where do I go first?
Q. To make a long story short, I almost cheated due to testosterone levels yet I didnt. I came clean via email and said that I'd like to talk. Now I must explain myself. I figger that my b/f at the moment is crunching on this since he has not respo...
A. 31 October 2009:
Let us be a bit dickish so you are getting the harshness from people that really don't matter and you will never see. Then you will be all lined up for the real deal when you and he hook up
LOL - truer words were never spoken IMHO.
Odd... (read in full...)
I've confessed to almost cheating, now we need to talk. Where do I go first?
Q. To make a long story short, I almost cheated due to testosterone levels yet I didnt. I came clean via email and said that I'd like to talk. Now I must explain myself. I figger that my b/f at the moment is crunching on this since he has not respo...
A. 31 October 2009: As much as I truly appreciate all the feedback and 99% of it is very helpful...
...it seems to me that there is a pre-judgment that I was predisposed to lying. I haven't lied before this mishap, and didn't plan on lying to get out of it. I was as... (read in full...)
I've confessed to almost cheating, now we need to talk. Where do I go first?
Q. To make a long story short, I almost cheated due to testosterone levels yet I didnt. I came clean via email and said that I'd like to talk. Now I must explain myself. I figger that my b/f at the moment is crunching on this since he has not respo...
A. 30 October 2009: LOL. I'm quite delighted to report that my confession was responded to with a thank-you.
And there is no worry about it. He was understanding and said that he didn't blame me since we can't get together very often. He said he'd tell me if he were ... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: Thanks again so much to everyone. I posted a new question: how to initiate the conversation as I now "put it out there" about my activity.
Appreciate all of you, thx.... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: ...but I chose to confess briefly over email and assured him that nothing happened and that I'd like to talk about "things".
I had to address it as he didnt' directly say anything which hurts the most.... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: I'm thinking of sending him a link to this question as my way of breaking the ice.
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I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: Thanks again, I feel honored for all the attention and it's really helpful since yes I did feel quite confused.
The way he responded was to drop hints, the best I could do was drop hints back since there is no solid evidence that I have been bus... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: After having thought about all your excellent feedback I'd say that the core of my issue is that we need to talk. I felt that perhaps he was "doing it" (saw definite signs) elsewhere, and while hurt I also realized that YES I do feel that the re... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: I ought to have said: "monogamous or not" means that I'm open to whatever works with him, we have yet to verbalise to what degree we are "open" or not. monitoring: NO, I believe it to be a mutual friend who generally lives on those types o... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: I ought to have said: "monogamous or not" means that I'm open to whatever works with him, we have yet to verbalise to what degree we are "open" or not. monitoring: NO, I believe it to be a mutual friend who generally lives on those types o... (read in full...)
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