How do I keep it cool??
Q. Hi, I have just started in a new relationship and i really like this new guy. He has just brought a new house and is spending allot of time on this, which i understand. We have not seen each other other allot over the last few weeks , and i ke...
A. 4 February 2007: Give him space! He's probabnly tired, working all day then on the house! It will make a person grouchy and if the house needs alot doing to it then he's probably working hard.
Offer to help out with cleaning or painting. You'll get a vibe from the ... (read in full...)
I'm scared if I try to hold her hand she'll pull away... then everyone will be embarrased!
Q. i reli lyk dis gurl. she told me on dat she wud luv to get flowers n a card on valentines day as she never has b4. cud this be a hint 4 me? shes reli busy so we never get to meet. ive asked to go movies wid her n she said ye but durin holidays ...
A. 4 February 2007: Try gentle touches first. Like touching her arm as you talk or picking something off her shoulder. Sounds cheesey but it'll give you a good idea of what her boundaries are. If she's comfortable with those go for it!!
Also look out for how close she ... (read in full...)
I just need to escape!!
Q. hi, I have quite a big problem. I finished with my ex girlfriend after being with her for just under a year, so i could get with another girl, who i thought i loved. I told this girl i loved her and i have been with her for 2months now. She tells...
A. 4 February 2007: You are of an age where hormones are wreaking havoc with your mind!! Be careful not to get a reputation for dumping girls, you may never get another date!!
You could try explaining to her that you feel bad being with her after finishing with the ... (read in full...)
Why do I get these paranoid feelings??
Q. hello I am 16 and have a bf and we have been together for a month. I used to have a bf about a year ago and he didnt want anyone to know we were going out with each other (i can see now that he was obviously ashamed of me for some reason) :( So n...
A. 4 February 2007: This is just a result of your ex's behaviour. Luckily for you the new boyfriend is nothing like him!!
Let him love you and your confidence will return. Be careful not to ruin things with insecurity, if you think you can, try to talk things thro... (read in full...)
How long should I wait until I ask about moving in??
Q. Is nearly 3 months too soon to ask someone how they feel about cohabitation? I really want to ask my boyfriend, as he has to move out of his house soon, and I have my own place. As far as I'm concerned, this guy is the one and I guess there's no set ...
A. 4 February 2007: Hi there,
I would suggest that if he hasn't started looking for a new place yet then it's on his mind too! He might be too polite to ask to suggest it to you!!
Does he already stay over alot? Does he have a key to your place?
Or suggest that... (read in full...)
If somebody was raped are they still a virgin??
Q. If some one was raped and they never has had sex before would they still be a virgin. When you ask poeple that know what has happened then if you try to talk to them they just say what you want to hear so it dosen't upset you and not wat they think ...
A. 4 February 2007: I just answered you but wanted to add that if it was you, the counselling will help with these thoughts in your mind. Nothing that happened is your fault.
Look after yourself
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