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I seem to get looked over for the more "shiny" people

Q.   Options. Everyone has options and like marketing the ones that are the shiniest are the ones that actually make it through. I've been meeting new people and just when I get close to them they start to be become distant and then you see them on ...

A.   28 October 2018: Thank you so much for the advice. It has been a few weekends since I posted and I'm just enjoying my time now. I'm trying to just focus on working on myself and empowering my thoughts to be positive and honestly just forgetting about the world. Hope ... (read in full...)

We had an argument about porn and lack of sex

Q.   H, me and my partner had a argument last week about him watching porn and not having sex with me. we’ve been together for 4 years I’m always catching him watching porn but he makes no effort at all to have sex with me. he says he doesn’t have a s...

A.   9 October 2018: Hi there, sadly I have to agree and say its time to move on. He should be all over you and if he isn't and choosing porn over you then he don't deserve you. He can stick to his ways. ... (read in full...)

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

Q.   Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

A.   9 October 2018: Hey everyone. Thank you so much for the love and support you've shown through this. We'll I've been single since then and my health and general feel of life has improved ten fold. I spend more time with family and yeah good. Ive been back on the ... (read in full...)

LDR boyfriend is pushing me away. Do I stay or end it?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with him for 2 years now, but he left about a month ago to live overseas. He says he wants me there but makes no effort to get a job and when he is offered one and the pay is good, he doesn't want it because the status ...

A.   11 January 2018: not worth it my friend. you deserve better... (read in full...)

I need help breaking the happy news to my partner!

Q.   Hiya everyone I’ve been with my partner for 4 years we have a 2 year old son together the problem is I have just found out I’m pregnant which I’m over the moon about but the problem is he doesn’t want any more children ever he has said I haven’t ...

A.   11 January 2018: don't stress. tell the dude and its a happy even so enjoy and all the best!... (read in full...)

Do I stand a chance of things working out for us?

Q.   Dear agony aunts and uncles, Can you give me some advice? I'd appreciate any thoughts on this. I have been seeing a great girl for about 4 months. She and I have had a passionate and very lovely time together, I would say we were a great team i...

A.   7 April 2017: Dude, my honest opinion is to walk away and move on. i got stuck in horrible relationships and i know that feeling of not wanting to let go, the countless emotions and thoughts running through my mind. If you gave your best and she feels that w... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid or is this married guy trying to make a move on me?

Q.   Theres this married guy I know, I always catch him looking at me then looking down when I catch him. I always got the impression he would actively try and avoid sitting next to me but he always sat straight across from me so he could see me. But ...

A.   27 February 2017: nope, sounds clear that he is testing the water. if he tries this on you, you have to make it known that this is inappropriate.... (read in full...)

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

Q.   Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

A.   24 February 2017: Hi All, so here is were we are at. yesterday there was a massive fall out and she proved again that she has not managed any of the issues, so i picked myself up and left her. I feel lost and sad, i am an emotional guy sadly. but it is for the best... (read in full...)

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

Q.   Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

A.   23 February 2017: thank you for the responses, and you are clearly right. its very erratic behaviour. i'm giving it a little bit of time before i make my decision. thank you... (read in full...)

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