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Q.   i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...

A.   11 April 2009: A guy that's a virgin in this age?! SERIOUSLY?! That's just out of surprise. I'm 19, a female, , and a virgin, and fine with that. No, I'm not waiting for marriage, I'm waiting till I'm in a serious relationship and there's this trust level. ... (read in full...)

He insults me and calls it reverse psychology. Could it be true?

Q.   Ok, a few weeks ago I wrote on here about my bf's emotional and slight physical abuse. (Basically the run down is he continually makes comments about me, my weight that really put me down, and for the physical part he "playfully" or so he calls it ...

A.   1 March 2009: Self esteem issues are very important issues. My sense from this is, you have to leave him, not only because of this, but because you say you're bored and feel a bit of attraction to someone else. This doesn't seem worth saving. As for whether he's... (read in full...)

Why do guys go hot and cold??

Q.   It is THE most annoying thing in the world! Let me explain my scenario and see what you all think: This guy and I have known each other for about five years (he was a prof in my college major so I saw him often), we've been good friends for abou...

A.   1 March 2009: I'm dealing with a similar issue, and I can relate. My advice is to give the guy time and space to figure out his own issues, and he will contact you when he has his head figured out. I think he'll contact you when he's ready :). ... (read in full...)

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