I need him, but I am just not in love with him.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. There were no fireworks when we met but he grew on me through his kind personality. We slowely became close but I always felt that he was not ultimately the one for me. He is incredible thoughtful, ...
A. 2 March 2010: There are two ways to look at this. In the end, passion and being "in love" are not what remains. I know this seems sad, but it's true. It will come down to trust, compatibility, respect and love. It sounds like you have all these things with ... (read in full...)
Does this sound like I have an eating disorder?
Q. It seems to have been a really long time since I last wrote in. I don't know how long it's been. This time though, my whole life is totally out of my control. My only way to control it is not to eat, I've lost a stone in 2 weeks, and I'm frequently ...
A. 2 March 2010: Yes, you have an eating disorder. Please talk to a trusted relative or doctor. You are causing damage to your body. Please don't do that, you are worth more than that. By controlling your food intake, you are only causing those out of control ... (read in full...)
One year anniversary coming up! Are we supposed to exchange gifts?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend (21) and I (18) will be dating officially for one year next week. Is he suppose to give me something or i should be giving him something? my first relationship. So i don't know what to do for our one year. can someone please ...
A. 2 March 2010: Sure, I would buy something casual and inexpensive. Guys sometimes don't think about things like that, so don't be upset if he doesn't give you something back. You could even make something meaningful, like burn some music for him. Congratulations ... (read in full...)
Is this what I think it is?
Q. I am 40 years old, but I can pass for a twenty something student. I ended a 10 year relationship two years ago. Afterwards I did the whole dating thing Internet, friend setups blind date, even the call the ex late at night for a booty call...I was ...
A. 2 March 2010: Do you like him? I am assuming that workplace relationships aren't acceptable at your place of employment. I guess these are the big questions. It sounds like you're having fun, tho!... (read in full...)
He cheated and lied but says that he has changed. should I give him another chance?
Q. I have tossed and turned everynight now for about a month over the same problem. So hopefully someone out there will be able to give the right and honest advice to help me thru it.. Okayy.. Its been about 6 months since me and my ex broke up.. We...
A. 2 March 2010: That's a tough one. What do you want? I think you love him and want to be with him still since you are asking the question. I would give him another chance and observe him. See how he acts. If he hasn't changed, then his true colors will come ... (read in full...)
Should I just wait it out and hope he comes back like he has before?
Q. I need some help and advice, and maybe just need to have some sounding boards. I would like to make this simple, but I feel I need to add a lot of detail to make my relationship understood. So sorry if this runs long! My boyfriend is 50, I am 39....
A. 2 March 2010: Thank you quiet-echo. Your words are true to me. They made me cry. I so much need to hear an unbiased opinion. It's funny, because all of those things need to be done. My pictures are extremely disorganized, as is my closet. My junk drawer is ... (read in full...)
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