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How can I assure my boyfriend that I will never cheat again?

Q.   Hi, I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a 7 month relationship with a WONDERFUL man who is 21. I stupidly cheated very, very early into the relationship. My boyfriend just found out and i know it hurt him very badly as he's been cheated on before in past ...

A.   29 January 2008: Patience and reassurance, that is the only thing that will work. He will be feeling worthless, like he isn`t enough for you, you need to let him know that is not the case and never has been. It will be hard for both of you but that is all you can ... (read in full...)

The other guy wants me to choose. What should I do?

Q.   I have been dating a guy (Guy A) for about 8 months and I do think I love him. About 4 months ago I met someone else (Guy B). He is very good to me and I do enjoy spending time with him but feel guilty doing so. Guy A says he is not in a "hurry" ...

A.   29 January 2008: I think you need to think really carefully about who you can see yourself having a future with,if it is Guy A then you will be willing to wait and take things slowly, if it is Guy B then you have to be ready to give up guy A and throw yourself into ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if he said it only because of a dare?

Q.   I'm 13 years old. I just found out something. The boy in my class who said he loved me, he was dared to say it. what do u think?...

A.   29 January 2008: I remember when I was a school and it is really hard when you like someone and then people take advantage of that. You know this boy better than i do so you should know wether he meant it or not. I would ask him if he said it for a dare, if he did ... (read in full...)

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