Boyfriend ghosted and I'm trying to move on, but always anxious and unhappy with life.
Q. My boyfriend of three months ghosted on me one and a half months ago. We had an amazing relationship and I was shocked to the core. I feel that it's been more than enough time to get over him but he's always still fresh on my mind. I've given up ...
A. 28 March 2016: Okay, first of all, what a jerk! People who ghost are such boneheads. I mean, do they think that their victims will suddenly forget that they exist? God. Second, you aren't being irrational. We all have walls that we build, some lower than others, ... (read in full...)
I don't love my husband and I'm in the marriage because of our children
Q. I have come to the conclusion that I have to stay in my marriage for the sake of the kids. I know, it's a cliche, but it's the responsible thing to do. My husband has done things to me that I feel are deal breakers, and most other women w...
A. 28 March 2016: Marriage is a delicate thing. It takes much more than love to make it succeed, and the fact that you consider your husband to be your best friend is a very good thing. That being said, love is still important. It depends on how old your children ... (read in full...)
My stretch marks seem to be a huge problem for the men that I date
Q. I came out of a 3 year relationship almost 2 years ago and for the past year I have been dating again. It's kind of personal to talk about but I am someone with very sensitive skin, and my breasts grew very fast when I was young and because of t...
A. 28 March 2016: As much as I'd like to just say "men are pigs" and submit, that's not the case. The truth of the matter is that some guys are just too shallow to understand that stretch marks are versatile when it comes to their sudden appearance. I have them on my ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a straight married friend
Q. I am married to a man. I have recently fallen in love with a female friend. She is married, straight, and of course completely off limits. But it hurts my heart. I haven't felt like this since I was a teenager. It's silly. I am s...
A. 28 March 2016: I completely understand where you're coming from. I'm bisexual, so I know that the worst feeling in the world is falling in love with the dreaded straight girl that would never switch sides. Just remember that nothing in life is certain, and if ... (read in full...)
He's at least 10 years older than me. Should I go with it?
Q. hi I started going to the gym and began to have a crush on a guy. I'm thinking he knows I like him because he introduced himself to me and said to ask him if I need help with the machines. The only thing is that he's probably at least 10 years older ...
A. 28 March 2016: There's nothing wrong with liking older men, and if that's what you want, then go for it. However, older men are very different from guys your age. Be careful. Don't forget that he's hitting on you for a reason. Maybe it's because you're attractive, ... (read in full...)
Should my stepbrother and I date in secret? Our parents have told us that we can't.
Q. me and my step brother like eachother but my step mom and my dad have set us tow down and said we cant date but i want to know if we should date secertly or not ...
A. 28 March 2016: From what I can see, you're 16-17 years old. Now, if you were older, I would tell you to do whatever you wanted, but since you're so young, my advice is to listen to your parents. This is your stepbrother. For better or worse, this is the person ... (read in full...)
Is she thinking of me too?
Q. Thanks for your advice. For the last 2 yrs I met a woman. For the past two years she has seen like part of my family. Roughly once a month to more we talked. However, even though it was part of her position I felt she stayed longer and at times wa...
A. 28 March 2016: Everyone's heard the old saying, "if you love something, you'll let it go". What they forget is how to actually do this. As human beings, we're programmed to cling tight to the things that we love and want, and to me, this sounds an awful lot like... (read in full...)
I'm Sexually innexperienced , does it affect my chances of meeting someone ? (Bi)
Q. Dear People of dearcupid.org Let me start off first by writing about myself. I am a bi sexual male in the early 20s , living in Europe. I don't prefer any gender over the other. I work out regularly and I like my self the way I am. You could ...
A. 28 March 2016: There's nothing wrong with being sexually inexperienced. These days, people forget that sex is still a pretty big deal for others, and just assume that their current partner knows what they're doing. That being said, your situation is unfortunate, ... (read in full...)
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