Sex with her is rather messy..is there a way to approach this with her?
Q. I have recently started seeing this great girl, the relationship is going well and the sex is great. However, there is one thing that I feel a little awkward talking to her about. She is fortunate in that she can orgasm very easily, literall...
A. 9 February 2009: Thanks everyone for the advice. Various large towels are now being put to good use. Didn't turn out to be any problem at all so I guess it was me just worrying over nothing.... (read in full...)
I've never kissed. I'm really worried that my tongue is too big...
Q. im really insecure. ive never kissed before and im worried that my tongue is too big. is this a problem for guys. also any first time tips???...
A. 26 July 2008: I would have to say that as long as it fits in your mouth then no it's not too big. As a guy, I wish mine was a bit longer but I really wouldn't worry about it, no guy is going to care what size your tongue is.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated four times. Will she change?
Q. My grlfriend cheated on me four times,but I still love her and we got a child together.Do you think she will ever change?...
A. 26 July 2008: That's always heartbreaking. I went through something very similar earlier this year and got some great advice from people on here. Have at look at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-differ-in-our-attitude-to-fidelity-.html
if you like.
Goo... (read in full...)
Should I stay with this man for the sake of my daughter?
Q. My relationship is a mess and I don't know what to do! We've both done stupid and horrible things and I feel so bad. I have a child with him which makes it worse. His dad died and because he was depressed he slept with a woman while i was 7 months ...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi,
At times like this it is very easy to let your emotions get in the way of the cold hard facts. You may have done things that you regret but looking at it from an outsiders point of view it's easy to understand your motives.
This doesn't ... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 6 May 2008: Hello oldfool.
Thanks very much for your kind words.... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 5 May 2008: I am currently writing this from a friends house where I am staying until I can find somewhere new. I moved some of my things out on Sunday morning but unfortunately there is just too much stuff for me to store here. 2 hours later I went back rou... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 29 April 2008: Me again. Well after returning from her trip to Paris she was particularly cold. Finally managed to get some time together to talk and she admitted that it was a relationship of convenience for her and that she was in love with someone else. S... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 26 April 2008: I really appreciate you taking the time to answer my posts. Your advice/comments are all adding to my resolve to get out of this relationship and start again. The actual logistics of it are a bit daunting at the moment but I know that you're right ... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 25 April 2008: Hello again. Just thought I'd give an update since my last post.
After the initial confrontation and discussion we had a couple of weeks of trying to go on as normal. Then last Saturday her morning trip to the gym turned out to be an all day outi... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 8 April 2008: Thanks for your replies. I think my decision would be much easier if things hadn't been going so well recently (at least until I found out). Now we are acting as if there was nothing wrong but my heart is telling me to be careful of any future hurt.... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 8 April 2008: HI Baby duck.
Thank you for taking the time to answer. Since I found out about this I have been doing a little bit of digging. I feel rather guilty about about this but as she documented the infidelity on the computer I had the compulsion to look... (read in full...)
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