I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 1 November 2008: Oh my gosh I realy feal for you. No one should be here to judge you so dont worry, we all have our own issues you are not alone. It sounds like obviously you are depressed and have number one a lot of issues from your past/childhood with your ... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 1 November 2008: Oh my gosh I realy feal for you. No one should be here to judge you so dont worry, we all have our own issues you are not alone. It sounds like obviously you are depressed and have number one a lot of issues from you past/childhood with your parents ... (read in full...)
When he is sober he is fine and he loves me. He gets drunk(alot) then he hates me. I can't stand this anymore !
Q. Ok, I am not happy in my relationship. My husband is a drunk. Binge drinker to be exact. He may go 4-5 days sober, and that's if im extremely lucky. Then a week or more streight drinking. He's been drunk by noon at times. Sometimes 4, sometimes ...
A. 1 November 2008: I've told him he needs to get help and he just says that he can stop on his own, that he "knows his limits" now and wont drink to that point anymore. But-he's been saying that for the three years we've been together. He drinks hard liqour only. ... (read in full...)
Is 14 too young to be going out with a 17 year old?
Q. im 14 years old and i met a guy at my families halloween party who is 17. he is the son of a family friend, and he gave me his email. do you think i am too young to go out with him? i really like him and he isnt some sort of player or something lol....
A. 1 November 2008: You know what, who can realy say? We don't know the boy, we don't know you. All we know is how 'kids' are these days, particularly boys. Or should I say, How they've always been? You could be into an extremely honest, sweet, caring boy from a realy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend, porn habit, no sex, being told I'm manipulative
Q. Okay..my boyfriend of about a year has always used porn as an outlet. He's upfront and honest about it, how he spends hours browsing and downloading it. He's even shared some of it with me, etc. I DO enjoy some of it. Although deep down I feel ...
A. 1 November 2008: Ok i have no problems with pornography as long as it is not addicting. I mean, obviously he is addicted to it. To use that over actual sex is disturbing. Honestly, you know it's wrong or you wouldn't be asking this question. If a man is spending so ... (read in full...)
Lost my feelings for my abusive husband-should I leave?
Q. Hello, Im in my mid twenties and am married for less than a year, and been with the man for only 2 years. I have one child ( 2 yr old) from a previouse relationship where I was with the man for 6 years, and a newborn with my husband. Everythi...
A. 1 November 2008: Thank you everyone who responded because in a way, it makes me feel like someone cares even if it's a complete stranger. And everyone is rite. i like what rcn wrote, and an annonymys reader. But as you can guess as typical, im still in this ... (read in full...)
Does he really have to spend so much time with his kids and exwife ?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend spending time with his exwife when seeing his children. I don't care how much time he spends with his children. He is lucky to be able to see them at least 3 times a week. Today he went trick or treating with ...
A. 1 November 2008: Oh girl, you are NOT wrong because they had an intimate past obviously, and anyone would feel uncomfortable or down-rite angry if they were you-I know I would. You should be able to be there(although you would prbly opt not to), not excluded. If not ... (read in full...)
Do I try to make it work with my alcoholic husband?
Q. O.K. here it goes......My husband is an alcoholic. When I fell in love with him it wasn't a problem. We met in our early 20's so we partied together, nothing uncommon. We have since had 2 boys (5 and 3) and I have matured and calmed down. He has ...
A. 1 November 2008: Ok. If you are anything like me then the following applies: You google "drunk husband" or something similar, to find other stories like yours you can relate to. You read them and feel an empowerment where maybe you want to leave and 'decide' to, ... (read in full...)
My alcoholic husband, do I stay or go?
Q. He's had an alchohol abuse problem for a while now. I've stopped trying to change him,but when I did,I used anger, neglect, ridicule, love, patience, criticism,and other negative tactics. But all this did was to cause him to disassociate himself ...
A. 1 November 2008: I am in a similar situation. I say 'similar' because I dont know your entire story, but I can relate to what you have said. I am married, with two children 3 and under, and i feel almost trapped in a way. But you have to think, like I have been ... (read in full...)
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