To women who have cheated: Are these behaviour patterns true? Can she be excited to go out with me again?
Q. Hello, I'm a 47 year old probably boring husband who is faithful and yet I think my wife is having an affair. I'm trying to get my hands around what's going on in her psyche so I can figure out what to do if anything. I've read some articles on...
A. 11 November 2008: The biggest turn off to a woman is the feeling from the man that he is 'entitled' to sex. Women enjoy being pursued. It is exciting and often.. the man shows how much he wants her. He goes out of his way, calls her, flirts with her, and woos her. ... (read in full...)
It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust.
Q. I think Samuel Johnson's words, although two hundred or so years old, are relevant to a lot of the questions and articles on this site; particularly the bit about trust. I have read so many questions from people asking if their boyfriend/girlfr...
A. 7 November 2008: I was cheated on after 13 years of marriage and since finding out about the affair... my life has never been the same. The personal heartache that comes through the realization that we are separate and not joined (as I believed we should have been ... (read in full...)
Is it always wise to come clean about an affair?
Q. Is it always wise to come clean about an affair? I've been married for 10 years. The affair happened 3 years ago and lasted for several months. At the time, my husband wasn't giving me much love or attention. The sex was amazing and I found it very ...
A. 7 November 2008: If your motivation is self serving then I would not tell him. Let's face it. You cheated on him because you wanted to feel better. Now, again, you want to feel better. Both the cheating and the unloading are both at HIS EXPENSE. How unfair is ... (read in full...)
Is it always wise to come clean about an affair?
Q. Is it always wise to come clean about an affair? I've been married for 10 years. The affair happened 3 years ago and lasted for several months. At the time, my husband wasn't giving me much love or attention. The sex was amazing and I found it very ...
A. 7 November 2008: If your motivation is self serving then I would not tell him. Let's face it. You cheated on him because you wanted to feel better. Now, again, you want to feel better. Both the cheating and the unloading are both at HIS EXPENSE. How unfair is ... (read in full...)
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