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Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   17 September 2010: sdoc - there are better sites like the goddessrealm. Lot's of young beautiful breath holding videos there. You are not alone. There are others out there who share the same fetish. I did films in tub and one in the pool. Very amateurish an... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   17 September 2010: Thank you Miamine. Don't get me wrong, my husband is not dumb by any means. He is just a normal male. Most males are like him. My mistake was thinking that he wasn't like most males. He lead me to believe that he wasn't interested in outside ... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   7 September 2010: To sdoc - My husband does appreciate me, but I feel that I am like his favorite treat in the box of chocolates. Most women have a desire to be exclusive in a relationship and be "the one and only" while most guys think that being attracte... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   11 March 2010: The key here for most women is this: We feel slighted. We feel bamboozled. We feel mislead. We were lead to believe that the man we were making a commitment to was going to emotionally FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT US THAT WE FEEL TOWARDS THEM... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   2 March 2010: Thanks for you input, Underwater. Everyone's perspective is helpful. At least it shows me that everyone isn't the same. Each of you have different beliefs and behaviors though they may share a love of breath holding. Good to know. Porn and unde... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   15 January 2010: Thank you for your thorough response anonymous Jan 13 2010. Your suggestion to make ground rules are a good sidea, though his response has always been "Why is it all about YOU?" I wonder though. Who is it all about when he is having other women ... (read in full...)

Should I just throw in the towel?

Q.   Five months and counting. I still think about my ex all the time. I have never been this hung up on anyone before. Granted it was my first long term relationship (2 yrs) but when does it end! I fell in love with him and I am afraid it will never go ...

A.   23 December 2008: Hello again, You said, "I don't know if its healthy to keep falling this deep for a person. I don't know if I ever want to again because I'm afraid of it not being returned or it fading for the other person again." Remember you have a c... (read in full...)

Should I just throw in the towel?

Q.   Five months and counting. I still think about my ex all the time. I have never been this hung up on anyone before. Granted it was my first long term relationship (2 yrs) but when does it end! I fell in love with him and I am afraid it will never go ...

A.   19 December 2008: Never throw in the towel, especially at your age - trite as that might sound. Years from now you will look back and remember the intensity of your relationship, but with age you will get a whole new perspective. I know, that doesn't help much now ... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   17 December 2008: Thanks for posting the poem DiovanLestat and thanks for the reference Jim. Quite appropriate. Thanks for the education and the perspective. GB Shaw is an interesting character indeed and has much to say about marriage and relationships too. Her... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   16 December 2008: Thank you so much for your encouragement DiovanLestat. Your validation of my feelings was a nice shot in the arm. Sometimes it is comforting to know that our ideas and feelings are not so far fetched and from left field. The insight about Sh... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   15 December 2008: DiovonLestat - Thanks for your time, thoughts and observations. The counseling ended because it was costly and it was agonizing for my husband. I had collected information which included phone bills and online correspondence - one which incl... (read in full...)

Is masturbation giving me headaches?

Q.   Hello everyone I have a rather odd question. but ok here it goes. I have been having a lot of headaches recently... I have also been masturbating more often then usual. can these to be related? could masturbating more cause my headaches? ...

A.   13 December 2008: Check to see if you are unconsciously holding your breath while masturbating. I've known people to get a headache from this or from tightening their muscles in your neck. Make sure that your neck has good support. ... (read in full...)

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

Q.   My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

A.   13 December 2008: Thank you for the feedback everyone. I see there are two sides to the coin. This can be a fetish we can both enjoy, but it also has it's ill side effects. Here's just ONE example. When I was in the tub relaxing and willing for a little br... (read in full...)

Why do men need porn?

Q.   If women get off without porn why can't men get off on the feeling alone also? Why is porn needed??...

A.   10 November 2008: Women love their men and don't need outside stimulation to get them aroused or get them off, so they are hurt when the same kind of feelings are not returned. Women also need to loosen up and enjoy their sexuality like men do and realize ... (read in full...)

Does my husband have a porn addiction?

Q.   I have just discovered my husbands porn addiction. We have been married for 27 years. I have always known that he looks, but accepted it. Recently I was off work with a broken bone for 6 weeks, and he kept disappearing to the computer room. When I ...

A.   7 November 2008: We women are dumbfounded when it comes to men and porn because we find it totally satisfying to be with, love and adore just one man. Our eyes, hearts and groins never desire or look for outside stimulation. Men on the other hand, don't love us ... (read in full...)

Husband watches porn, no matter how I dress or what I do sexually I cannot receive his attention!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 5 years this summer, but together for 7 and we have 3 and one on the way. He wont quit looking at the porn and he has even saved pics of these women on his side and added them as an avatar on a game he plays. ...

A.   5 November 2008: Funny how so many women have the same problem. My husband used to communicate with his ex girlfriend from college and talk about sex with her. (She is a psychologist by profession, married with a little boy.) He also used to instant message women ... (read in full...)

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