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I am nervous about sexual possibilities, any calming suggestions??

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Question - (4 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Sooo.. My boyfriend and I are just getting into the sexual thing, but not sex. I want him to finger me, but Im nervous. I know he has pube hair but will he get turned off by me having it?

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A female reader, Shanarawr United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2010):

Shanarawr agony aunthello hun

dont be worried make sure that you are properly lubricated then it should be ok, will hurt the first few times but it will be gone quickly!

yes some guys will get put off by loads of hair but others really dont mind. it depends on how long you have been together tbh.

ask him what he prefers and if it might be ok just to trim. because that is easier to do

hope this helps x

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A female reader, Lulu_bud Canada +, writes (4 March 2010):

You shouldt be nervous because it's not that bad at all and it doesn't really hurt, maybe only the first couple times just a little bit. some guys have pubic hair and some don't. I'm sorry to say this but yes most guys do get turned off alot if you have pubic hair to so you should maybe consider shaving but it's up to you.

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