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I love this girl who is very abusive, and controlling, I have broken up with her, she makes her way back, she has hit me, how do I end this completely?

Q.   Basically Iv been dating a girl on and off for about 4 months now, and she's spoken to me like dirt for pretty much the whole time, except for the first 2 weeks when I met her. I really want to end it, and I have 9 times now, but everytime I do she ...

A.   15 September 2008: I had a similar situation once. It lasted a bit longer. The sweet times are incredible, and the bad are the worst you will ever have (sound about right?). On again, off again, on again... so on. Insults, STDS, are bad enough. Once they start ph... (read in full...)

He went down on me and wanted nothing in return - is this normal?

Q.   Me and this guy that I've only met twice have hooked up each time we've been together while at a friend's house. Each time, he's gone down on me, but afterwards it didn't seem like he wanted anything in return. Does that seem wierd to anyone? Why ...

A.   15 September 2008: We aren't all pigs who are just in it for ourselves :) There are givers and receivers. Maybe he was just too shy to request anything back, maybe just giving was enough for him. Don't read too much into it - enjoy. ... (read in full...)

How do I make my boyfriend realise that I'm more important than anything else and to quit smoking?

Q.   my boyfriend likes to smoke but i dont want him to smoke.every now and then so i permitted him to smoke once in 2 months..but he cant wait...for him smoke is more important than me..i said him that i dont need him if he cant live without ...

A.   15 September 2008:  You wish him to see that you are incredibly important to him - how important is he to you? While there are benefits to not smoking (in fact, nothing good every comes from it), it sounds like you are not so concerned about his health as about ... (read in full...)

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