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I am a 23 yr old Wounded Warrior wife in MN. I have been married 3 years at this point. I have been through one deployment and through Chemotherapy for my Marine. I was 17-19 during those events. I am not sure what "qualifies" me to help anyone, but that won't stop me from trying to help friends or people who I can relate to.

Concerned about my boyfriends previous anal sex experiences, when this is something I never want to try!

Q.   My boyfreind of almost 8 months recently confided in me that he had ONLY anal sex with his ex from 3 years ago on multiple occasions b/c they didn't want to get pregnant. (He was 16 at the time). We have never had penetrative sex yet but have done ...

A.   25 October 2013: Well first off the potential age difference is a concern. He is at least 19 and you are probably 16 or 17. I was 16 when I had my first sexual experience, I regret it. I wish so badly that I had waited until I was older. Anal is painful, kinky, ... (read in full...)

He would never like me as much as I do

Q.   There us a guy who has recently transferred to my school, i am really starting to fall for him BADLY. I dont know what to do because hes the new popular guy and am just a quiet nobody, i have him in nearly all of my lessons and am constantly ...

A.   25 October 2013: Why does it matter what other people think? So what your cousin liked him in the past. If people want to be jerks and judge you they have no place in your life. I say you should start talking to him. Start off introducing yourself (if you haven't ... (read in full...)

How can I trust my husband that he isn't lying about pornography?

Q.   I have a couple questions... My husband has been addicted to porn for many years, even before we met, and he has lied to me about it. I have caught him several times both in the act and in a lie. He has lied to me so many times about it and I have ...

A.   11 March 2012: He has admitted to watching porn as much as everyday or as little as 3 times a week for about 10 years, keep in mind he is 23. He has told me he can't stop and it always ends up being a fight in the end me in tears telling him that I can't and won't ... (read in full...)

My body screams for sex but he just pushes me away

Q.   I'm sexually active for 2 years now and my current boyfriend is the only one i've been with. We only have intercourse 4 times in total and I literally beg him for intimacy. I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go ...

A.   10 March 2012: Have you considered trying masturbation or getting some kind of toy for yourself? You can ask him to use it on you, its not quite the same but its something you can do on your own as well ,when the urge is too strong if you aren't with him, or he ... (read in full...)

Does this mean that all the passion there was before is now gone?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for just over a year, we have been together for over 3 years. I have noticed over the last 4 months that he doesn't kiss, touch, or look at me like he used to. I have asked him about it and he says that he just ...

A.   7 July 2011: Yeah its been crazy. I am 20 I'll be 21 in a few months, he is 22. I love him more than anything in the world and I just want to make him happy and try to make myself happy at the same time. We were going to go to couples therapy but there were some ... (read in full...)

Does this mean that all the passion there was before is now gone?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for just over a year, we have been together for over 3 years. I have noticed over the last 4 months that he doesn't kiss, touch, or look at me like he used to. I have asked him about it and he says that he just ...

A.   7 July 2011: Well I guess another stressful factor is that while deployed he got cancer and after a year of chemo an radiation he is sterile. Both of us want kids but we know how slim the chances are that he will even be able to get me pregnant. I am pretty c... (read in full...)

Does this mean that all the passion there was before is now gone?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for just over a year, we have been together for over 3 years. I have noticed over the last 4 months that he doesn't kiss, touch, or look at me like he used to. I have asked him about it and he says that he just ...

A.   7 July 2011: Thanks. Right now we are in a stressful situation we are moving cross country because he is getting out of the military, but we didn't know that when this all began. I have told him how I feel on several occasions and I always get his same resp... (read in full...)

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