Molested as a child, it's affecting the my sexual relationship today... Help!
Q. I am a 23 year old female and my relationship with my mate is on the brink. When I was four years old I was molested by my family member and it went on for two in a half years. I relive some moments like it happened to me yesterday. I try to b...
A. 14 January 2006: I know a lot of the frequent agony aunts on here give terrific advice, but as far as this goes, I would suggest starting up some sessions with a professional. Your past will take more than a paragraph of "how-to's" to get over. I think it is ... (read in full...)
We want to have sex...are condoms enough to prevent pregnancy?
Q. Basically I'm 18 and having my first relationship but my mum keeps calling me a slut and saying that she just knows I'll end up pregnant. I'm very upset because I love my b/f so much and he's so kind and sweet and now I feel like I'm going to have ...
A. 14 January 2006: I guess I'll agree with what most others have sad thus far, about how unfair it is that your mother is calling you a slut and about how condoms are 97-98% effective. However, using birth control together with condoms will assure over a 99% chance ... (read in full...)
Something seems to be missing from my life! I just don't know what it is...
Q. I need some advice, I'm unhappy but I don't know why!! I have a loving family, great friends, fantastic boyfriend, lovely car and house, I'm studying the subject I love (law) at university and I like my job. I've always had a very high standard of...
A. 10 January 2006: I know that the suggestion I am about to offer is very controversial and you can take it or leave it, but it was my gut instinct when I read just the topic line of your message for help.
I do not know for sure what your religious standing or views... (read in full...)
I fear my girlfriend is sleeping with the godfather of our child. For the sake of my daughter, please help!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years, and we have a 14 month daughter together. My girlfriend became friends with her friend's mate, and made him godfather to our child. Since we moved into our own place my girlfriend tends to phone ...
A. 6 January 2006: Tinkz is completely right. This story brought tears to my eyes, as it seems you care so much about how this will affect your daughter and you haven't once mentioned about how much this has hurt you.
Your suspicions are definitely warrante... (read in full...)
I love a girl at school more than anyone else, but she says there'll never be anything between us!
Q. I have been intrested in a Girl at school for some time now and have only told her my feelings for her 6 months ago. She is after someone else and has just told me that "there won't be anything between us I don't see you like that". This does not ...
A. 6 January 2006: First off, excellent job with telling her of your feelings for her. That was very brave of you, and sometimes people never speak of such things.
I was in a similar situation, but it lasted for about 5 years until it came to a close. The end resu... (read in full...)
We broke uo but I still really fancy him. How can I get him to notice me?
Q. hi i fancy this boy. hes my stepmums sisters child in christmas 2004 we both fell in love and unfortunately we broke up but i have got a really big crush on him but i don't think he likes me please help me how can i get him to notice me ...
A. 6 January 2006: There is a lack of information here that prevents me from posting better advice. But from what I gathered, this unfortunately sounds like a case where you broke up for the sake of moving on, and only he has done that thus far.
Chances are that... (read in full...)
He verbally abuses me but wants to marry me. But I'm not sure I love him! Help!
Q. Hi,i have been with my bf for about 8 months and we were really serious and he's all introduced to the family and said to my momma he wants to marry me and he loves me but i have a prob. I dont know if i just love him or if i am in love with him. ...
A. 6 January 2006: After 8 months, I would believe that you would know for sure if you were in love or not. If you are doubting it, then I would say that you are not in love with him, or at least not deeply enough in love to marry this man.
Besides that, you do n... (read in full...)
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