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writes: I have been intrested in a Girl at school for some time now and have only told her my feelings for her 6 months ago. She is after someone else and has just told me that "there won't be anything between us I don't see you like that". This does not change my feelings for her. How do I show her I love her more than anyone else would and will be the best for her? I also feel I need to get to know her more, how do I do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Contact Carly +, writes (14 January 2006):
 Dear readerFirst good that you told her how you feel its good to get it out in the open just be her friend im sure that sooner or later she'll realise that she might have feelings for youWrite backcarly
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reader, Legendless +, writes (6 January 2006):
First off, excellent job with telling her of your feelings for her. That was very brave of you, and sometimes people never speak of such things.
I was in a similar situation, but it lasted for about 5 years until it came to a close. The end result: nothing. He simply just did not feel the way for me that I felt about him. And it had always been difficult for us to be friends, because I couldn't get over him, and he couldn't do anything about it.
I would not even advise you to be friends with this girl. I am sure that you will take even the smallest bit of attention from her the wrong way, which is not your fault at all. It's just the hope inside of you that one day, she will change her mind about her feelings towards you. Chances are that she will not, and you will be even worse off, having built up hope over time.
I would definitely keep your distance from her and try to move on. I know it hurts; my stomach is twisted in knots right now just from thinking about my similar experience. But it will work out for the best, and you can find someone to share mutual feelings with. After all, you want someone to love you with the same level of intensity with which you love them.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 January 2006):
 Dearie, u could be her friend.
She has mentioned that she doesnt see u in that way and there cant be anything between the two of u. You should find someone who will share your feelings. Its been six months now and no change and she is even considering someone else.
Go out and enjoy yourself. You will meet someone else.
Goodluck dearie.
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