Do girls feel anal is humiliating?
Q. Do girls feel anal sex is in some way humiliating??? My gf and i had anal for the first time last weekend, and in the middle of it she started to cry. Of course we stopped, but at that moment she couldn't explain why she cried. After thinking...
A. 27 February 2009: Anal can feel that way the first time, though I might call it more like feeling vulnerable than humiliating. Think about it from a girl's point of view. We willingly expose that very personal place to you. Then we endure the initial discomfort of ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant and STD's by penis up the butt?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl. I have a Amazing boyfriend who would never hurt me, We talked about the future, and we desided to wait a longg time before we have sex. he does finger me, and i have gave hand-jobs to him only. hes the only one i been with but ...
A. 25 February 2009: To anonymous poster below.....
Respectfully, I did say it's a matter of opinion. But to refute your view....
In case you didn't realize it, by my "narrow" definition, a male who engages in vaginal penetration would NOT be a virgin. And by y... (read in full...)
Crying during sex?
Q. Last weekend, my gf and i tried anal sex for the first time. The initial penetration hurt her a lot, but we took it really slow and i was able to enter her fully. The pain seemed to go away and i was able to start to thrust gently. But right in ...
A. 24 February 2009: I totally agree with Jessica, because I can relate to it. The same emotion came over me....it's kinda like being overwhelmed by what's happening. Once ur past the pain, you feel totally vulnerable..... you're laying there, spread apart and ... (read in full...)
It was so painful but I want to try it again
Q. Ok, so my boyfriend wanted us to try anal sex. We tried it once before but he didn't go all the way in. Well this time he did and I wasn't at all relaxed.. ummm really tight. It hurt and I made him stop. I want to try it again because I've don...
A. 24 February 2009: What position did you use? My only suggestion is to relax, go slow, and use plenty of lube. And have the patience to try again if it hurts too much. I have learned that stopping and trying again sometimes makes a world of difference. Trust me, ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant and STD's by penis up the butt?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl. I have a Amazing boyfriend who would never hurt me, We talked about the future, and we desided to wait a longg time before we have sex. he does finger me, and i have gave hand-jobs to him only. hes the only one i been with but ...
A. 24 February 2009: I do understand why having anal sex first is appealing. It's just less complicated at 14, and just (if not more) intimate. The fear of pregnancy is also a factor. It will be painful the first time, no matter what you do or how much lube you us... (read in full...)
First time anal or any sex
Q. How bad will first time anal sex hurt? Also, what position is best the first time? This will be my first time for nething so I want it to be perfect!...
A. 24 February 2009: It WILL hurt the first time, and probably the first few times. But it does get better, both the longer he is in you and the more times you do it. I also hate to scare you, but my first time hurt a lot....I kinda screamed at the very beginning. ... (read in full...)
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