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I love my friends husband!!

Q.   I'm struggling with the same thing as before...My attraction to my friend's husband. I have tried to avoid him like the plague, but we still end up seeing each other coincidentally, our kids are very good friends,etc. I have no problem seeing him, ...

A.   14 February 2007: My friendship to my girlfriend is over. Unfortunately, in an attempt to say Goodbye via email,(because they are supposed to be moving out of state). In my email I stated that I would miss ALL of them, but she saw it as some sort of attempt to get ... (read in full...)

Have feelings for my friend's husband and I feel guilty! Is it wrong to tell him my true feelings?

Q.   I have been very depressed lately. I still have serious feelings for my friend's husband. We started to email each other last month, but then stopped... we decided we should just talk over the phone if there was something to say. I found out that ...

A.   20 November 2006: Thanks for all the feedback. I know this is just something I must let go. It hurts keeping the feelings a secret. I hope that they do move...maybe I'll finally be able to move on with my own life. I will miss the friendships I made though...I ... (read in full...)

I love my friends husband!!

Q.   I'm struggling with the same thing as before...My attraction to my friend's husband. I have tried to avoid him like the plague, but we still end up seeing each other coincidentally, our kids are very good friends,etc. I have no problem seeing him, ...

A.   31 August 2006: Thanks for all the feedback. By the way, I never ever said I'm in love with this man. I don't know why that was the title of this thing. I am trying to avoid any contact/interaction with him. Ironically, he left something for me with his wife to ... (read in full...)

I love my friends husband!!

Q.   I'm struggling with the same thing as before...My attraction to my friend's husband. I have tried to avoid him like the plague, but we still end up seeing each other coincidentally, our kids are very good friends,etc. I have no problem seeing him, ...

A.   21 August 2006: Thanks again for all the advice. Maybe it's all in my head, and I'm bored. I am BORED. It's just that when I start to move on with my tortured feelings he calls and invites us to the pool, and I am HAPPY like some kind of lovesick teenager. I like ... (read in full...)

Feel like I'm emotionally cheating by being attracted to my friend's husband!

Q.   Help! I'm married and am very attracted to my friend's husband. It didn't start out like that, but we have taken our kids to the pool a few times and we share many interests, and occassionaly he will say things like "I should have married you" or ...

A.   5 January 2006: Thank You so much for your advice!! I do not want to end up as a divorce statistic. There were some great points and things to think about. I think it is just a rut I'm in & don't spend enough time with my husband..Maybe I am being gently seduced ... (read in full...)

I'm married with a baby on the way..so why can't I stop thinking of this other married man?

Q.   Hello. I have been married to my husband almost four years now and we have a two year old daughter and another baby is on the way. I thought I was happily married, but I often find myself thinking of this man who is the manager at the restaurant we ...

A.   4 January 2006: It's only natural and human to be attracted to other people. I'm proof of that. Someone that you see often, or on a regular basis can grow on you and make you feel comfortable. I have grown fond of someone (my friend's husband to be exact) lately ... (read in full...)

I'm married with a baby on the way..so why can't I stop thinking of this other married man?

Q.   Hello. I have been married to my husband almost four years now and we have a two year old daughter and another baby is on the way. I thought I was happily married, but I often find myself thinking of this man who is the manager at the restaurant we ...

A.   4 January 2006: It's only natural and human to be attracted to other people. I'm proof of that. Someone that you see often, or on a regular basis can grow on you and make you feel comfortable. I have grown fond of someone (my friend's husband to be exact) lately ... (read in full...)

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