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How can I make myself pretty? I've very low confidence.

Q.   i feel ugly, have low self esteem and no confidence how can i make myself pretty? ...

A.   21 June 2008: think of ugly girls like scarlett johanson, she takes so much care of her self. get a nice haircut inspired on your idols, keep your nails polished, invest in great looking clothing, invest in fashion magazines, bit don't - never - be shy to show ... (read in full...)

In love with my best friend - But he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I have a major issue, and it's pretty deep so here we go. I'm in love with my best guy friend. The real problem is.....I'm 18 and he's just now getting ready to turn 17. I just graduated from high school and we still talk and hang out but it's...

A.   20 June 2008: Just tell him how you feel. I got trapped in a situation like that for 10 years just to find out that he felt the same. And if he doesnt, be sure that it will not affect your friendship. Of course it will be funny at first, but then it'll become ... (read in full...)

Ex wants to see me....good or bad idea??

Q.   My ex wants to go with me to a wedding in my hometown next month. He then wants me to fly back with him to where he lives now and check out the scene. What do you think? Bad idea? Feelings are still involved on my part, for sure. I want to talk a...

A.   20 June 2008: I want to talk about working our relationship out again - then there is your opportunity. I'm for doing whatever you like. But be prepared to find out he's not interested. And if tou find THAT out, you'll know for sure that he is not regretting his ... (read in full...)

How can I get over the girl who rejected me?

Q.   going to a party and a girl who rejected me is goin to be there. My friends advise me to avoid her but i know i won't be able to because i will get really annoyed when other guys chat her up and she's dancing with them. Please help i'm trapped i ...

A.   20 June 2008: Do not ignore her, treat her as a friend. But see, you cannot stand on her way to get to know new guys. Check if there are any other interesting girls you could be hiting in this party. Let her go. ... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out? I'm scared of being rejected!

Q.   there's this girl 2years younger that me, i think she's a great person and really pretty. I talk to her sometimes online and she is really nice. She has been in many relationships and is single now. I would like to date her but i find it really ...

A.   20 June 2008: Ah, how do you ask her out? "Let's have some ice cream", "let's see a movie", "come see my band play", "i have to fix my bike. Are you coming?" What matters is that you spend time with her. Make it clear that you want to kiss her.... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out? I'm scared of being rejected!

Q.   there's this girl 2years younger that me, i think she's a great person and really pretty. I talk to her sometimes online and she is really nice. She has been in many relationships and is single now. I would like to date her but i find it really ...

A.   20 June 2008: Dear annonnymous. Being in love with someone and not being able to show your love is... BORING. Call her out. if she denys your invitations, there are a lot of things you can do to impress her so that next time she won't let you down. Be confident, ... (read in full...)

Why falling for your teacher is never good!

Q.   *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...

A.   20 June 2008: hello. life's much about what you do with your stories. You have such a passional strong story with this guy. You ware a kid, but you know from the beggining (don't say you don't) that there's something wrong in dating your teacher. Please, assume ... (read in full...)

26 years old and never had a boyfriend...

Q.   I am a 26 year old female who has never had a boyfriend. I think I'm a pretty interesting and unique person overall. I'm reasonably attractive (have modelled professionally- 5'8/125), have an career primarily as a musician and occasional indie ...

A.   20 June 2008: Ok, my story is just the same. Only I don't get hit by other woman. Recently I found out that being in love and trying to seduce man is someting that really works. Man are somehow stupid. If you dress your best and feel like everything is possible, ... (read in full...)

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