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Friend says he doesn't like he co-workers yet he plays along like he does. I'm confused

Q.   this sounds silly but its worrying me. ok my good friend transferred to another department recently and is working with a new group of people-i may be joining him soon. what bothers me is he says theres a couple of people there hes had run-ins with ...

A.   21 February 2011: In some jobs, keeping the facade of niceness is absolutely critical. In my old line of work, just about everyone had at least one other person they HATED to be around. We'd get over it and get the mission done. If we didn't, we'd fail or worse... (read in full...)

If I get the help my boyfriend says I need, will he still stay with me when I get better?

Q.   My fiance and I we were fighting over a stupid phone.. he turned it on and then i over reacted. he told me he wasnt doing anything, but he said i hurt him so much that now, he doesnt know what he wants from me. Meaning, like about the marriage...

A.   21 February 2011: There isn't enough information here for us to decide whether or not you are actually bipolar as your fiance claims...it's entirely possible he is mistaken. That being said, you and him need to get deep down to the roots of this conflict. What is ... (read in full...)

Is an intimate relationship worth all the arguments and heartache that come with it?

Q.   It's me again. I have a complex question here. I know that not everyone will like what I am going to ask. My question is...Is an intimate relationship really worth all the arguments and heartache that come with it? I know that this question...

A.   21 February 2011: In any long-term relationship, disagreements happen. Arguments happen. It's how you (and her) deal with these impasses gracefully and without being petty that make things work. Relationships also don't just happen. Some folks get very serious ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with someone who's from a different religion and his family would never accept us...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months, however we always say it feels like more since we practically live together. When I saw him first, I was so drawn to him that i needed to talk to him - very unlike me! Anyway, long sto...

A.   21 February 2011: It is noble for you to consider the feelings of his family, but if he ultimately decides to be with you...he may have to leave them behind for you. My own mother wasn't accepted by my father's side of the family for over a decade, but they had each... (read in full...)

Sex...twice in one night???

Q.   ok well ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i would like to say its been great in the well bedroom but the thing is he wants to be able to have sex twice in one night and im not against the idea but i just know that whenever he finishes ...

A.   20 February 2011: In men the refractory period ("recharge" if you will) can be anywhere from fifteen minutes to over a day. If he wants to improve his stamina, try staying well-hydrated and starting your activities earlier in the day. With a little bit of "encoura... (read in full...)

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