I don't know if I want to miss out on an opportunity with someone so amazing for a trip..
Q. Alright so I really need some help. I am beyond confused and stressed out and dont know what to do. So back in June I had decided I was unhappy in my home town and wanted to finally travel, which is something I have always wanted to do and never ha...
A. 6 October 2010: I think you need to give this at least three months. If he cant leave his work, that makes sense, but maybe he could pay for a two way flight for you to come home for an xmas visit.
Then do another three months. After 6 months if you are stil... (read in full...)
Why do I always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy?
Q. Why do i always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy? I have recently entered into a new relationship and as soon as i saw love forming i started to mistrust my partner. I have an insane paranoia and do not trust her whenever she is out. ...
A. 6 October 2010: Well first of all you would have to find out why you are feeling this way. Has this been a reality for you, has someone done this to you?
Either way, not everyone you date should pay the price. Councelling would really help because you would be... (read in full...)
The man I love found out about my crush on a girl and isn't talking to me!! Please help!
Q. *Sigh* I think I just lost a man because of a woman...I met Frida on saturday and she really fascinated me, I mean she was sooo confident and mysterious and smart! I'm on the rocks with my guy. I feel used one moment and loved the next...he found ...
A. 6 October 2010: I would not phone and say sorry, you have not done anything wrong.
A crush call fall in many catagories. Being on the rocks with him may have been a large factor in you feeling something for Frida.
Fact is, I am sure he's had a crush or two a... (read in full...)
B/f broke up with me because I was clingy and immature. I want him back!
Q. Is there hope for me and my ex to reunite after a month apart: we have a lot in common and he broke up because I got clingy and immature....but I like him still. I mean he asked me for family advice when he could have asked his best friend.... ...
A. 6 October 2010: You could ask... just be prepared for hearing both answers.
I would also ask yourself if you were being clingy, because if you were... figuring out why might be more important than winning him back.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex how much she has hurt me?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me about less then a month ago. And only after a week breaking up with me had another boyfriend in her life. I'm just so completely hurt from all this that words can't even describe my pain. It's like our relationship ...
A. 6 October 2010: I do not think you should tell her, or any woman that. I know it hurts, and the advice already given by mrvhappy is a great idea. Write it in a letter BUT NEVER send it, and burn it so nobody else finds it.
I can honestly tell you that... ... (read in full...)
I really want to overcome my secret affair with my male cousin now I am going to get married
Q. oK my problem, im in my mid 20"s. growing up was Pretty hard my parents all ways working you same old story, but my problem is that all my life ive been stuck in a limbo of sick mental mind games. that i find really hard to overcome and people and ...
A. 6 October 2010: I am not sure about relations with a cousin, but that aside...
You can not deny your sexuality. As you already know, you are not happy. There could be solutions, like the strap on ect... but this is not something you should hide from your wif... (read in full...)
He made a list of things I do that annoy him!
Q. My boyfriend and I have known each other for at least ten years, but have only been dating for about a year and a half. He had a crush on me for the LONGEST time and I always turned him down, until I realized what I was turning down. He is funny, ...
A. 6 October 2010: Having tough skin is a great thing. My thoughts are that because he is not as open to hearing his faults he used email. I dont know what to say because I have not read the email, but I would suggest you ask yourself if there are any faults on that ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend her boyfriend has kissed another girl? Is it even my place to say something when I am friends with both of them?
Q. I've been solid friends with this guy, A, for a while, and friends with his girlfriend of three years, B, for even longer. A and B have a very stable, happy relationship. But the other day A told me he'd kissed another girl, C, who he's liked fo...
A. 6 October 2010: That is so tough because you are such good friends with both of them.
I think you know how she'd react if she knew so if you know that him cheating in the manner he did is a deal breaker than I think she should know. However if you think she woul... (read in full...)
I secretly believe he will leave his wife for me! Am I mistaken?
Q. i've been having an affair with a man for the past six months. we really are in love. when we first got together we never thought that we would have feelings for each other the way that we do he is in a loveless relationship for convenience. him and ...
A. 6 October 2010: I am not sure if he will leave his wife, and he probably isn't either. A man who would not finish his marriage and tie up the lose ends before starting a new relationship is probably not a very good candidate for dating.
If he did leave his wife... (read in full...)
Ex broke up with me numerous times and then cheated with my best friend!
Q. My ex cheated on me 4 times I forgave her three times then I broke up with her the fourth. Then a week after I broke up with her She fucked my best friend. And im really not coping at all, what should I do? ...
A. 6 October 2010: I am sorry. I know that it will be hard to cope with, but all in all you have to remember that you didn't do anything wrong. The lose of a girlfriend is always hard, and after the affairs and forgiveness I am sure you feel angry.
I would su... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want to miss out on an opportunity with someone so amazing for a trip..
Q. Alright so I really need some help. I am beyond confused and stressed out and dont know what to do. So back in June I had decided I was unhappy in my home town and wanted to finally travel, which is something I have always wanted to do and never ha...
A. 6 October 2010: That is really a difficult situation for you. You have to make the choice, but maybe ask some questions before you decide.
1. If you stay would he wait?
2. How long would he wait?
3. Is is possable for him to come for a visit during your stay... (read in full...)
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