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Is this normal?

Q.   My bf and I had oral sex for the first time and we both really enjoyed it, but my question is if is normal for me fo feel discomfort and little pain everytime I pee on the clitoris part??? Like I said when we were having sex iit didn't hurt or ...

A.   21 April 2011: If he was somewhat aggressive (sucking too hard, biting, or spending too long in one place), it may be sensitive or even mildly painful for a while. If it goes away after 24 hours or so, no worries, just tell him to ease up a bit. Practice... (read in full...)

She's been with other guys and I'm afraid I won't measure up

Q.   This girl I know really likes me and wants to get with me. She is a year older then me and has hinted she would like to sleep with me.... I like her back but She has had sex with other guys and I'm scared I won't measure up to them and not satisfy ...

A.   23 March 2011: She said she wants to, and you didn't? You've got more control than I did at 16. #1: Satisfy her? If you're both 15 or 16, I guarantee that's a moot point. Your peers are not as good as they claim to be. #2: Average is average for a reason. Th... (read in full...)

I really like him but don't want to ruin the friendship

Q.   Hi, can you help me? In fifth grade, I was at recess, and I spotted a boy I thought was cute. I started to like him after asking his friends about him, and got to be in a group with him on a class trip. Then, we parted ways and he went to the other ...

A.   23 March 2011: He knows. He's probably terrified to ask you to date him, though. He might even feel the same way you do. How would you handle seeing him with a new girlfriend? Would you be happy for him, not bothered at all? (If so, just be friends) Or would yo... (read in full...)

Shall I really try to forget her and move on? She's confusing me. Is there hope?

Q.   Alright, I'm in a really weird situation here. It's a long story so I guess I'll just start from the top. I've been friends with this girl S for a few months now. We've mostly talked about music and other random stuff. Then she got a boyfriend,...

A.   23 March 2011: Your post says you're a guy. So act like one. Don't pussyfoot around and go through a friend. That's what middle-school girls do. 1: You TOLD HER to go back to her ex. Oops. 2: You provided a completely platonic, fun way for her to pass the time... (read in full...)

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