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Obsessed with the idea that he might leave me

Q.   Hello, Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. Everything is going great so far. He is a lovely man, and I absolutely adore him. We get along really well and have lots of fun together. He tells me he loves me everyday and has said...

A.   15 June 2010: i feel the same way often. for me, i've found it to be inadequacy issues. i don't feel like i'm up to his standards. we're also very good, but maybe we're too good. living in my body, i constantly see my flaws, whereas i don't often see his. he ... (read in full...)

How do we communicate more effectively? And how do I keep from bugging him too much?

Q.   my boyfriend of a year and i are great together, when we're physically together. i only see him about once a week, and all is well. the problem is, when we're not together during the week, i feel like things are a bit tougher emotionally. we'...

A.   28 May 2010: thanks :) i suppose our problem is temporary, too, so i'll take your advice and keep doing what i'm doing for now.... (read in full...)

How do you truly get over someone who you still think is still so amazing? How will I trust someone again?

Q.   My now-ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, after 11 months (to the day.. 11 month anniversary) of dating each other. He said he just doesn't love me any more. I want to hate him, but I still love him. I accept his flaws, I want to tell him good ...

A.   27 February 2009: went through so many emotions.. still coping. but doing ok. found out some more bad things about him :/ makes it easier to be angry.... (read in full...)

Do intentional one-way conversations work?

Q.   I am taking a break/vacation with my boyfriend of 10 months right now. It's only been a few days, but I realized many things. One being that I feel that taking a break is just running away from our problems. I'm want to give him space and all that, ...

A.   10 February 2009: thanks :) very true. decided not to do it because he might misinterpret, and it gives me the time to explain myself if he asks questions. ... (read in full...)

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