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My wedding day was wonderful and since then I've been crying. When can I feel better?

Q.   I was wondering if what I'm feeling is normal... I got married almost 4 months ago. I'm not one who particularly enjoys weddings and hated the entire process of organising my own. I wanted an intimate party but as my husband has a big family...

A.   9 July 2015: Sounds like the anti climax of the wonderful day being over has just hit you extra strong. Maybe organising something to plan for and look forward to will help ease the pain , perhaps a holiday or special event? It could also hormonal as other ... (read in full...)

He watches porn but when I try to initiate sex he says he isn't in the mood

Q.   I live with my boyfriend of four years. He watches porn but when I try to ininate sex he says he isn't in the mood. I am starting to take this personally as he doesn't think I am attractive. He has also stopped with the affection unless he is ...

A.   9 July 2015: Sageoldguy hits the nail on the head. It's hard to step back I know when we have feelings for someone but the answer really seems to be in those questions ... (read in full...)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

Q.   I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

A.   9 July 2015: Sorry Tisha I realise you addressed his motivation for lying was to protect her however every man who wants to keep porn from a woman can assume she has self image problems if this is the case and use that to justify lying In this case the OP does... (read in full...)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

Q.   I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

A.   9 July 2015: Totally agree Tisha on what you say . Only one point where you say that her bf holds no responsibility . He does ,,, why? For LYiNG !!! If he were honest in the beginning then perhaps she would have decided not to get involved with him but he shou... (read in full...)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

Q.   I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

A.   9 July 2015: The issue that many people fail to understand is that nobody ever stops to tell a person make it female that their liking porn means there is something wrong with them ! But the minute a woman says she doesn't like porn and doesn't want a relation... (read in full...)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

Q.   I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

A.   9 July 2015: I also never said that her boyfriend said that! I stated that the issues for SOME women is when the partner claims not to like something and then we find that his porn is exclusively that !!!!!! This may not be an issue for you . You and many oth... (read in full...)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

Q.   I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

A.   9 July 2015: 'Why is it so aweful if a man finds another body type attractive' It's not!!! It's when they hold the pirn body as the ideal Thqt is the problem! When a wan sees his porn of women that are nothing like her and all have commonalities that she does... (read in full...)

After finding my boyfriend's porn stash, I'm worried he wasn't being honest when he said he likes my body!

Q.   I'm sorry if there are more questions like this, but I used the search feature and it didn't seem to work. This may seem like a petty issue, but it's making me feel self conscious. I've always felt my body is inferior, considering you always get t...

A.   9 July 2015: Once again the point has been missed entirely. It's not about expecting men not to find other women attractuve . It's this mentality that s many seem to have that the porn star body is the ideal!!! A man will claim not to like porn then she finds ... (read in full...)

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