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How can I make our break-up easier for the children? They are very upset and confused

Q.   My husband of 16 years has left the family home, me and my two young children. He says he does not feel loved enough by me then says he feels suffocated by me. I am very confused and don't know what to do to get him home. We all miss him very much ...

A.   24 November 2009: Just the opposite happened in my marriage. The wife just had to leave and "be able to live her teenage years she missed." If I could understand her reasoning, or anyone else's reasonings for splitting up after 15-20 years of marriage, I would be ... (read in full...)

How do I get back my 9 inch penis?

Q.   When i was a youmg man i was blessed with being well endowed with a 9 inch penis. I had no complaints and lots of complements on its size. A couple weeks ago i overheard my wife over the phone to her phone say that she missed my 9 and thinks it had ...

A.   24 November 2009: Insecurity at your age? Listen to the women who have posted answers. Learn how to please a woman and your unit could be two inches long and you could still be known as a stud.... (read in full...)

My wife moved out 5 year ago because she wanted space. Does this mean it's over?

Q.   My wife moved out of our home 5 years ago telling me she needed time to sort things out. I thought she was just going through a phase, but the months bumped into a year, and then one year rolled into another. She has never told me where she is ...

A.   24 November 2009: The same thing happened to me. No reason, but she just had to go. I was dating before the divorce was final. Waiting around for five years? As cruel as it may sound, I wonder how often she is laughing at you, waiting around like a lost puppy. ... (read in full...)

Do men feel the same way about dating as women do?

Q.   I have enjoyed reading the posts on this site. I am wondering in the dating world, do men or women have an easier time finding a mate? I am curious what men and women think on this topic? Personally, I have always found it hard to meet a man, I f...

A.   23 November 2009: I have always believed the challenge is on the man. Take a test; go to a known singles bar and see how many men will attempt to hit on you; refuse all. OK, so 5-10 men get turned down by you. Now, you pick out an attractive guy and go ask him if ... (read in full...)

Does no sex mean no call???

Q.   Hi.. this past weekend I went on my date that I met online. He was very nice, I was a little nervous.. he was very confident (he's used to dating) he said he enjoyed my company... we met for coffee, we talked, and joked. He is a straight shooter... ...

A.   23 November 2009: I have to agree with the consensus that your principles were not tarnished. However, didn't you mention you had phone sex with him? Is that not an invitation on your part, at least to a finite degree? Too bad he damaged your perspective of men, ... (read in full...)

How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?

Q.   Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...

A.   23 November 2009: whiteflower said it best. It's a 'we' thing and no telling her to do it. If you decide to shave, why not suggest you do it. Nice expensive shaving cream, respectable razor and shave with the flow of the hair. Wipe off remaining shaving cream, ... (read in full...)

My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!

Q.   [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...

A.   23 November 2009: My first day on this site, so please excuse my ignorance. I have spent a fair amount of time reading questions relating to the relationship problems and I have one answer. Instead of wasting your time on the Internet asking questions, go to the ... (read in full...)

My wife wants me to sleep with her sister...is that wrong?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a good relationship with my wife even though there was some infidelity on my wife's part a few years ago. Her sister has also been a victim of infidelity, and hasn't had sex in years with her husband who is just not interested in ...

A.   23 November 2009: I know this is quite untimely, however, I must share my opinion, as it seems just about everyone else has not mentioned it. Do you have sex with your wife's sister? You may once, but when the second time comes around, expect to be having sex with ... (read in full...)

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