Is it normal to not feel too much excitement?
Q. Is it normal to not feel too much excitement? I used to feel depressed at home, so I managed to find a good career job. I work 8am-5pm. And I often found wasting my evenings doing nothing so I took on another job. So now I work from 8-5, 6-11. And ...
A. 21 January 2021: You’ve convinced yourself there’s nothing going on in your life for you to be too excited about. In all honesty, it sounds as if you may be right. You should be applauded for your work ethic but, damn, you really need to find a hobby or an outside ... (read in full...)
Help! Stuck in my marriage for financial reasons
Q. I am in love with someone else and yet I am married ..but I can’t afford to leave the marriage because I have 2 kids with my husband and my financial security is not stable...the one I am in love with is also not financially stable ...but if I stay ...
A. 21 January 2021: If I understand the question correctly, you are wanting financial security so you can leave the man providing the financial security to be with a man who could use some of that security for himself? Are you gainfully employed, yourself? How long ... (read in full...)
How do I respond without putting him off? I'm not sure if he just wants a casual relationship
Q. I met a guy at work around a year ago for a few weeks - we saw each other around a few times. Nothing more too it. He added me on Facebook the other week and we have really hit it off , chatting non stop, very interested in my life etc ,obviou...
A. 21 January 2021: I think you might be making more out of it than is necessary. You can’t jump to “committed” without first beginning with “casual”. Just let the relationship progress naturally and at its own pace. If you put too many expectations on the relationship ... (read in full...)
Isn’t it unfair for my life-long friend to put our relationship on hold?
Q. I have a question that has been bothering me. We are both 26. I have a childhood friend whom I went to school with. We have spent everyday day of our lives together, and as life is coming to a crucial stage (soon we will be with kids, lifes change, ...
A. 21 January 2021: I think you’re worrying about it more than you need. I went through a similar situation a few years ago. It’s just the progression of life. You both had similar interests and responsibilities up until now, so you both were walking the same path. But ... (read in full...)
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