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Why do people think the unattached person in a love triangle is a victim?

Q.   Why is it that people get involved in love triangles and feel rejected when they don't work out? Why do so many agony aunts treat the third member of the triangle as a victim? I'm tired of hearing people reccommend.... "distance yourself from hi...

A.   28 September 2007: I understand eddies reasoning, and not taking away from the fact that a third party becoming involved with someone who is married, or the long term partner in a relationship, is infact the interloper. I will add a spanner here, in that not all peop... (read in full...)

My long distance bf has totally changed and become vicious - how can I tell if he loves me?

Q.   im in a longdistance relationship for 19 months now. my bf completely changed. dnt know if he still loves me. he dnt even take pics of us ,he dnt seem very sad of going away. al he want is being vicous. how can i know if he loves me? ...

A.   28 September 2007: I know sometimes the old saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder is soppy, but i think in this case that you may have fallen into this catagory, and can only think of the past nice things your boyfriend did . We can all wear rose tinted spec... (read in full...)

Recently my guy hasn't been calling or asking me out, but when I asked he was happy about it! What does this mean?

Q.   ive been going out with someone for a while - he always was the one calling me and asking me out - but recently that hasnt been happening. i thought maybe he isnt interested anymore. but when i asked him out recently he responded really warmly and ...

A.   28 September 2007: In all honesty, this could be one of two things. 1. He was looking to see if you felt as interested, for you mention initially he was calling you, he wasasking you out etc...... maybe he is looking for some encouragement from you????? We are afte... (read in full...)

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