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anonymous
writes:ive been going out with someone for a while - he always was the one calling me and asking me out - but recently that hasnt been happening. i thought maybe he isnt interested anymore. but when i asked him out recently he responded really warmly and sets a day, time etc.what does this mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, Just Jo +, writes (28 September 2007):
In all honesty, this could be one of two things.
1. He was looking to see if you felt as interested, for you mention initially he was calling you, he wasasking you out etc...... maybe he is looking for some encouragement from you????? We are after all in the age of equality, so men do expect some initiative to come from the female.
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2. Think about it, how long was the gap befor you calledhim back? if it was over two weeks and he wasn't working away from home, or looking after a sick relative, then maybe he is just a guy to go out with on a csual basis, but don't pin your hopes on him being Mr right, just mr right now.....
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 September 2007):
 I think it was abit of a tester, as he was the one doing all the calling, and the asking out, maybe he thought its time to take a back seat for a while and let you call him. If he really was not intersted he would not have responded warmly to you offer.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): I would say that he felt like he was making all of the effort in the relationship so sat back a little to see what would happen, Im sure he reacted warmly as he was pleased to see that you made the effort and do actually want to be with him.
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