My defense against the possibility of being hurt, is to attack my boyfriend. Help!
Q. Hi, Recently I have become rude and aggressive towards my boyfriend. For the first time today, I actually reduced him to tears. I'm not proud of the way I've been but how do I help him understand that it's because I am scared that he's going to ...
A. 27 July 2005: I have the same situation. I have been physically hurt and emotionaly hurt and i refuse to let it happen again. My way of dealing with it (with my new bf of 2 yrs) is to realise that you cannot change someone, just go with the flow and trust this ... (read in full...)
I want to stop being so jealous with my fiance, but I have self-esteem issues...
Q. Hi all, I have a very low self esteem issue and I am having a hard time trusting my ex fiancee. It is very complicated story but here is some of it... We had been dating for about 8 months and I went on vacation without him, ended up kissing ...
A. 17 June 2005: why on earth do you have a problem trusting him? You cheated on him, it makes no sense. Did he cheat on you too? If not, the i can see exactly why he is doing what he is doing. and jealousy issues? Are you jealous of yourself for kissing another ... (read in full...)
I like my boyfriend's daughter... but worry about why I'm jealous of their relationship!
Q. I have been dating my b/f for about 3 years now. He has a daughter from a previous relationship who lives with us. I never thought I would be a stepmom, I hate it! Don't get me wrong, I love this girl so much. I'm 23, she is 8. We talk all the ...
A. 8 June 2005: I totally understand this feeling. I am also in a relationship where my boyfriend has a daughter who lives with us. IT IS HARD! I am also 23 and it really sucks because his daughter is 14. I never wanted to be a stepmom either. Sometimes I get so a... (read in full...)
We're cousins, and he says he wants "time to think" about our relationship...
Q. My Father died 14 years ago and when he did I lost all ties with his side of our family as they no longer wanted to accept my Mother as part of their Family. Recently, however I got back in touch with one of my cousins who is the same age as me. ...
A. 11 May 2005: wow. thats a tough one. first off i know it is not illegal to be with your cousin, however, i bet the damage will be just as severe. most people do not date their cousins. if you two were together just think for a minute about what your families ... (read in full...)
I want to formalise what we have, but he won't divorce his ex!
Q. I have been with my man for about 2 years... everything is great except he won't get a divorce! We have been living together for most of the 2 years and are in a wonderful loving realtionship. He and his wife seperated about a 6 months to a year...
A. 26 April 2005: No, you should not be patient! This man is still legally married, which means INFIDELITY! Not to sound harsh, but even though they are separated, it is still reality. What happens if he stays with you and then meets someone else? If he can cheat wh... (read in full...)
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