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My dreams are full of an old boyfriend and I feel guilty about it...

Q.   I am feeling incredibly guilty because I have been dreaming of an ex-boyfriend for about a month. Let's just say the dreams are not all platonic and it has caused me to begin thinking about him in 'real' life. I am married for less than a year...

A.   8 July 2005: It is natural soon after marriage to doubt the huge step you have taken. People always talk about how difficult it is for men to deal with the enormousness of marriage but as you seem like a very idependent woman it does not surprise me that this ... (read in full...)

Should I attend uni where my boyfriend lives, or am I asking for trouble?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for almost 4 years, off and on. He recently moved out of state. Before leaving he told me that he wanted to bring me with. I may decide to attend college where he is next year, but I'm not sure if I can trust him. We ...

A.   8 July 2005: I think that you need to determine what effect it would have if you moved with him and it didn't work out. Are you the kind of person who could finish college and move on whilst being on your own in another state? If you do not think that you have ... (read in full...)

It's only been 18 months of marriage and the passion has disappeared!

Q.   Hi, Ive been married for 1 year and six months. When we were goin out we used to get really intimate but since marriage everything changed! We don't kiss in passionate ways anymore or do anything romantic. We don't even have sex that much any mo...

A.   8 July 2005: When people take the final step of marriage it can be very daunting because it is so final. Men especially can feel trapped and often will push their partner away as a defense mechanism. If he doesn't seem interested in sex at the moment then maybe ... (read in full...)

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