How to deal with a suspected Borderline Personality Disorder son-in-law
Q. How to deal with a suspected Borderline Personality Disorder son-in-law Our daughter lives in Ireland with her Irish boyfriend who for the past 6 years has been very hostile with us. He has now cut off relationships with us. The last tantru...
A. 22 August 2014: Both answers are not helpful at all. WiseOwl likes to pontificate and pass judgement and accuse other of doing so. BPD sufferers rarely get diagnosed because they are convinced that they have no problems and it is other that have a personality ... (read in full...)
I love my best friend, but he causes me pain; is he mysterious or a psychopath?
Q. Hello everyone 3 Things are getting out of control here and I could really appreciate some help! I’m painfully in love with my best friend. He is fun and at the same time he’s conservative, he is sometimes gentle and some other times really cynic...
A. 15 September 2013: If I were you I would avoid him like the plague. My daughter's partner is bipolar: he is controlling, manipulative, often insulting and definitely living in a world of his own. I have given up hope on people with serious bipolar disorder ever ... (read in full...)
My beloved uncle has passed away and I don't know how to carry on with life now
Q. My uncle was diagnosed with cancer five weeks ago, and he died two days ago. I have been having nightmares about when I saw him in hospital with the oxygen mask on. I wanted to see him in hospital, but it was very difficult. It was heart breaking ...
A. 6 July 2013: My advice is not to look at dead people in their coffin because that image will be with you forever. Just try to rememebr your uncle's face when he was still healthy and enjoying life.... (read in full...)
What alternative actions would help? Will my tough love response help my daughter recognise the problems she appears not to see?
Q. I am a 62 year old semi retired man living in a Mediterranean island. My daughter of 35 lives in Ireland with her partner. They have a daughter of 2 years. Both are unemployed and living on the dole. I have so far supported my daughter to ...
A. 2 January 2013: Thanks for your feedback. It is not easy to include all relevant facts in such a short space. Other facts are: a. I do not believe my daughter's partner is really interested n working. He sleeps up to noon every day. He can do manual jobs but ... (read in full...)
What alternative actions would help? Will my tough love response help my daughter recognise the problems she appears not to see?
Q. I am a 62 year old semi retired man living in a Mediterranean island. My daughter of 35 lives in Ireland with her partner. They have a daughter of 2 years. Both are unemployed and living on the dole. I have so far supported my daughter to ...
A. 2 January 2013: Thanks for your replies so far. We have always been resident in this Mediterranean island. It is our daughter who migrated to Ireland 5 years ago. My biggest concern is that I believe my daughter's partner suffers from bipolar and treats my daught... (read in full...)
How can I act, behave, appear, present and seem as if I am a virgin for the man I love who I am about to marry?
Q. i used to have sex with my two boyfriends in the past but i stopped with all this stuff from last four months as i got engaged to a guy who loves me a lot and treats me like a princess. We are going to get married soon but he doesn't know my past ...
A. 28 August 2012: There are times in life when one would do well to resort to deferred sincerity. If you think that this guy is the man for you, just don't spoil the opportunity by giving information that will make both of you unhappy. What is important is that you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I used to work as an escourt? How do I get over my intimacy issues?
Q. Background: I am 22 years old and am just graduating with a university degree and am going on to get my masters. When I was 18 and in my first year of university I was having some financial problems because I found out that I did not qualify for ...
A. 23 June 2012: Learn to forgive yourself.Just move on with your life and don't tell him anything. Sometimes bringing up such unpleasant issues that have been buried only complicates matters and makes our lives miserable.... (read in full...)
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